Overcoming my fears

[MandyBueno]

A few days ago i went to the driver's school to finally get started with my classes. Well, i have to confess this. Driving for me is almost impossible, the idea of having a vehicle under my control, it's scary! I remember first time i tried it, i failed tremendously i didn't want to step foot in a car ever ( unless someone was driving me). Turns out life has cunning ways to make us face our fears. My dream job requires a driver's license. I have all the atributes for the job except this one tiny detail. For some of you it's simple and easy " just driving" but for me, it seems to be something terrible, despite the job i wish for, i don't like people driving me to places, it's bad to rely on that. Cause it is all about their timing and their priotities. It kinda sucks to count on someone for this. So i am facing the situation again. Some advice?

[kenster1]

I can second that.i get anxiety ridden parking or driving near certain lorries when im on a bus.even sitting at red lights to long gets me annoyed.we live in a world now that most jobs require us to have a licence.

[foxglove_pnw]

Is there anyway you can take the public bus ?

[hypercat54]

Yes it is scary certainly at first but don't forget that's why you learn how to drive. Once you pass your test you will have the vehicle under your control and be able to drive safely. x

[JustaGirl22]

And when you drive don't forget to breathe, I often forget this simple (and life-saving!) technique when I drive. If you have favorite songs to listen to while driving it can help the mind to relax, as well. Driving a vehicle is very freeing and can be fun! You can drive yourself to new adventures, which it sounds like you found one, and that's so wonderful! We are proud of you whatever choice you make ☺️

[MandyBueno in reply to JustaGirl22]

Your reply put a big smile on my face. Thank you!

[Kevin160]

I used to have anxiety when driving , but it helps when you tell someone to push you a bit and help show you how its all good, drive safe, take care and you will be fine, we all have fears but they are just emotions, whatever meant to happen will happen regardless of your actions stay positive and know it will be alright at the end...i know you will do great