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Is it ok for my boyfriend to think another bitch is cute?

I ask him all the time he is truthful... and he tells me he ain't worried about these hoes and bitches he is in love with me.

He tells me it's nothing he wants me and would never ever do anything.

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Kakes808

No. Especially if you have anxiety issues because that could lower your self esteem and make you insecure. Tell him to keep it himself. Or go out with him and call a guy cute in front of him and see how he like it hahaha. 😂

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Pjmmtr01 in reply to Kakes808

No but I ask though

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vanessa3 in reply to Kakes808

Lol

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Pjmmtr01

He tells me these bitches don't matter

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Kakes808 in reply to Pjmmtr01

But still if he respected you he wouldn't do that.

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Pjmmtr01 in reply to Kakes808

He was in a group for class and he had no choice but to communicate for it. He doesn't go out of his way he said. He apologized because

He's like ; sorry she had attractive parents who is now attractive who goes to my school and happens to be in my class. I can't control that. Get over it stop living in a fantasy world. There's ugly and fine people everywhere. He says he doesn't check them out

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He said that he doesn't check them out that he had a class and had to be in a group with them.

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Kakes808 in reply to Pjmmtr01

Okay the way he put that was terrible I can understand we all some times look at other people because it's just instinct if you see someone attractive but that fact that he told you to get over it and get out of that fantasy land was just low. Especially on his end. I promise you there's a man out there who would respect you and not look at other women. You need someone to praise you and give you compliments and confidence. Every time I ask my boyfriend if he thinks a girl is cute he will be like "no, your the only girl in my world". Even if he did think that girl was cute. He respected me and didn't wanna hurt me

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