Life

[Summer2110]

All my life ive wanted be somebody important. But at this point in my life im thinking its impossible. Im in a relationship that is slowly depressing me and im a mom and i feel like i need to do better job with my relationships with the people i love or i might lose them

[ElJared91]

I'd be willing to bet you are one of the most important people in the life of your child(ren)! As cliche as it sounds, the fact that you are able to realize that the situations you are in are not optimal actually gives you a great head start on trying to fix them. It might be a good idea to see if you can talk to someone about your feelings and emotions; I recently started C.B.T. treatment, and just unloading all of my internal thoughts and emotions was a HUGE weight off my chest. As daunting as a task as it might seem, you CAN do it!

[Summer2110]

I just broke up with my bf and it seems he doesnt care about me at all he wasnt always like this we have had ups and downs but I still love him im not perfect either i have said and done things to him im so confused one minute i feel we can take on the world and the minute its me vs him can somebody give me some insight please

[Hidden]

Well, you may not be the President of the US, you are the most important person in your children's lives.

You are going through the ending of a relationship, which is difficult and sad and lonely. But perhaps you can take time now how to make some changes in your choice of a better partner and review what you would do differently.

There is a Paul Simon song that goes:

"Losing a love is like a window in your heart

Everyone sees you're blown apart

Everbody sees the wind blowing...."

It hurts, but you are young and there will be another love, particularly after you take the time to grieve the end of your recent relationship and have a good honest look at your failings as well as his. And your good traits as well as his, and figure out why this relationship didn't last.

Best wishes for good health and healing. You have a good life ahead of you.

[Summer2110]

Thank u so much

[Hidden in reply to Summer2110]

Sommmer2110,

I see you replied to me less than an hour ago, so how are you feeling this morning? I don't know if you are at home or t work, so don't reply if at work....don't want to cause any disruption there. Was just thinking of you and wanted to make certain that any replies you received yesterday made sense to you. And to let you know we don't just reply and then forget about you.