Feeling numb

[crystalgonzalez9]

Iam 27 with a 6 year old and lovely husband. Had a miscarriage about a year ago now pregnant but seem to hate myself. Couldn't get up for work decided it's time to go to the docs...said to have depression and my Husband acted like he cared but I he makes jokes about it and it makes things worse..like no one gets me

[Mireyaozzieg]

He needs to show support because depression is deep.Going trew a miscarriage his hard on you i have had 3 and it's intense.

[crystalgonzalez9 in reply to Mireyaozzieg]

It's like his tired of it..it's been two long weeks and I've never really felt sad about losing the last baby till now...he wants a quick fix I feel iam sorry about the 3 miscarriages

[Mireyaozzieg]

Remember your pregnant and still hurt and sad by a miscarriage and all this is a healing process it won't go away quick but it will.perhaps you might want to get counseling.sonetimes doing hobby u love can help u with not focusing too deep into your depression...just remember men don't cope with it like women...

[crystalgonzalez9 in reply to Mireyaozzieg]

Iam seeing a psychiatrist once a month..yeah going back to work tomrrow see how things go then need to try to get up ....right just wish men would just understand

[Mireyaozzieg]

Well I hope it goes great at work.

[crystalgonzalez9 in reply to Mireyaozzieg]

Thank you!!

[Mendyjem1]

Ask your counselor about how to help your husband better understand your condition and how to help you. I know I had issues with how my parents dealt with me and my anxiety. I told my mom that her dismissing my anxiety made me more anxious. She wanted to know more about what she could do instead to help me cope. Loved ones care, they often just don't know how to help and feel helpless.

So sorry about the miscarriage. Praying for you

[crystalgonzalez9]

I know I want a happy baby but it's so hard for me to be happy...

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I always feel like my boyfriend doesn't get it because he hasn't experienced it. I've done my best to explain it to him, he has seen me at my lowest, I've sent him articles on how to deal with a depressed loved one, and I still show him YouTube videos that explain my feelings pretty well. He understands well now, and has always been the supportive type, which I'm lucky for. You could try doing those things mentioned, showing him videos or articles, and just talking as openly as you can, but like stated above, your counselor will have suggestion too.