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Health not so good 😒

Hey everyone, did write a post earlier but it's disapeared for some reason, but never mind, been very distant from here again but for all the wrong reasons I'm afraid, not work keeping me busy but my health, decided to go docs about some health issues as you all know I actually work for a gp surgery! been ignoring blood in my urine for sometime and unfortunately I recieved my test results back last week and I'm positive to cancerous cells in my urine, I've been on a very quick succession of further tests and now awaiting my mri on Wednesday to find out if it is kidney cancer I have and if and where it may have spread, I'm not going to say im not scared or worried as I have 3 beautiful children and 2 tiny grand babies and I'm dreading being ill and leaving them behind but I'm so angry with myself for not quitting smoking earlier, all I can do now is keep my fingers crossed for a positive outcome xx

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Hiya Sharon, really so sorry to hear your news. Please stay positive and don't be angry with yourself coz anger is not good for you. You are doing terrific with your quit and I'll be thinking of you on Wednesday and hoping for the best results for you. Sending you healing hugs to help you get through this difficult time x x x x

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Hi Sharon, I'm so sorry to hear you are unwell. Will be thinking of you and sending you positive thoughts and hugs to help you through xx

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Hang in there Sharon. Thinking of you.

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So sorry you are going through this Sharon, and really want you to know I'm thinking of you and sending hugs and loads of positive vibes. I was looking for something to help, and can't find quite the right thing, but here's one, hope you don't find it too trite:

"It's just that in the Deep South, women learn at a young age that when the world is falling apart around you, it's time to take down the drapes and make a new dress."

Keep busy, and like briar says, beating yourself up is no help at all. You really cannot know that smoking had anything to do with it!

Big hugs winging across xxx

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hi Sharon so sorry to hear your news. Hoping for a possitive outcome for you Wednesday. You have done so well and sound a strong lady I'm sure you're sail through this blip in the ocean xx

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Hi Sharon,

so sorry to hear about your health. You need to keep a positive outlook and not get angry. You have no control over what is happening and being angry will only increase your stress levels and that is not healthy at all for you, especially at this time.

fingers and toes crossed for you and sending lots of hugs and prayers your way xx

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I hope things work out for you , our thoughts WITH you.. let us know how it is going..

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Hi ya Sharon, I'm so sorry to hear your not well :( but like the others have said, please, please dont beat yourself up about it :)

Stay strong now, cos I know your a very strong Lady :) but just incase you need them, loads a strong healing vibes and warm cuddly huggs heading your way :) :)

Take care now and just remember, we're with you all the way :) :) xx

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Good Luck Sharon with the MRI, I have everything crossed for you.

Sending healing vibes your way. xx.

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Hi Sharon 😀

Sorry to hear your news, I have everything crossed for you for Wednesday.

Sending you lots of hugs

Xx

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Thank you all so much for your kind words and support, do you know how lovely you all are to care, i told my employer today she's a gp, the first words that came out of her mouth was ' are you expecting to take sick leave?' Because if you are its just not going to happen????' Reassured her that I was merely advising her of my recent health shock and was just keeping her in the loop, then she went on to say well hopefully it will all be fine but it's worrying! Note to myself, when I'm back in good health must look for another job!!!! Came home and read all your lovely messages and it really cheered me up, thank u, I will let you no how I get on with my mri, sure do not no what I would do without you peeps xx

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Hiya Sharon just remember your health is way more important than any job and that's where your priorities must be. This site has so many caring people and we will be here for you so keep the chin up hun and one step at a time 😃 x

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Positive vibes for Wednesday.....and yep it sounds like you need a new boss...!! Keep the faith hun 😃 x

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Thinking of you today hope all went well 💕

Xx

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Hi Sharon,

Please let us know how you got on (if you want to of course) We are all thinking about you.

Jim

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Hey Sharon, sending you lots of love, hugz n positive vibes :-)

xoxox

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