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I have a really good friend who I love . Trying dating again the guys I am just not sure on ... I am so confused . Do I just hang out with my friend enjoy life leave dating and the new guy who I am thinking about dating chat to?

New guy wants more than chatting I think he wants full on relationship with jumping into bed as number one I just do not know.

I am just not sure what I want..

Also have a really stressful job at present and course work and 20 things going on .. It is hard being me I am so tired by Friday feel like living dead !

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Hi nice to meet you. The cynical part of me is thinking this guy just wants to get his leg over. If that's what you want then fine. If it's not then honestly I wouldn't bother with him. Those types of men are 2 a penny so never feel pressurised to do anything until you are ready.

If I have learnt anything in my life it is to express my own terms in a relationship and make my boundaries clear from the outset. In my experience never let anyone (especially the opposite sex) take advantage of you or to do anything you aren't happy with.

Never give your personal power away. x

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Mia898 in reply to hypercat54

Hello

Nice to meet you too. Honestly this guy wants more than a relationship and wants to get his leg over. Really I have laughed but the naughty photos when I am dating I am not sure.

So playing hard to get meaning I want more than photos I want love am I correct to play like that? Thank you for your tips . I do want fun but with the right person who loves me for the correct reasons not just to use me !

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