Pregnant and the guy has gone

[Helta123]

I found out I’m 2 to 3 weeks pregnant, and the guy I was seeing has decided to dump me and he doesn’t care what I do. Apparently I’m over reacting, and that I should not talk to him again and get on with my life... I can’t have the baby, I’m only young and the baby won’t have a good life. Can anyone give me any suggestions please?

[kenster1]

hi im sorry to hear your story guy sounds like a complete bad one and its unfortunate that you are faced with terrible decisions.you really need guidance here asap.if your ex is saying your over reacting that is completely shocking hes just taking the easy way out and probably do the same to someone else no doubt.please get help though this is the biggest decision you will ever have to make.please think about it and talk with your family.

[Helta123]

Hey. Yeah, I’m a bit angry and upset at him because he doesn’t care. The only thing is I’ve gotta go through this by myself, my family are supportive but it’s the fact that I have no boyfriend no one to be there or anything

[MAS_Nurse]

Dear Helta,

What a difficult dilemma you are in, and have very disappointing that the father of your baby isn’t even able to offer any moral support. Whatever decision you make regarding this baby requires a lot of thought and I would counsel not to make a hasty decision. It is important to have a serious chat with your GP/doctor, and possibly a close trusted adult family member or friend, with whom you can discuss the options available to you. No one in this community is qualified to tell you what you should or should not be doing, not even the MAS Nurse team. Whether you choose to see the pregnancy through and consider giving the baby up for adoption, or whether you choose to end the pregnancy you need to get professional advice. I don’t know whether you live in the UK or elsewhere, so I cannot signpost you to services that are only available in the UK, but may not be available where you live. But if you google 'unwanted pregnancies or pregnancy advice', I’m sure that there will be national charities and organisations with helplines that you can call and have a chat in confidence with.

We care about you and can at least listen and offer you our support whatever you decide to do.

Take care and keep in touch.

MAS Nurse

[Helta123]

Hello, I’ve spoke to a couple of family members, they’ve said they they’ll support me through everything. I live in the UK, I’m gonna get in contact with my gp and then go from there

[123ag]

Best of luck to you

[Helta123 in reply to 123ag]

Thank you