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Hello I'm having lots of problem that is causing me great anxiety

CM_09
CM_09

I feel no pleasure from orgasm which is causing me a little stress as I can ejaculate normally. I'm getting pain in my perineum and sometimes I feel like there is a leak there. It's hard to explain but I keep getting like a shooting tickle sensation there which also travels to the penis and just like a dull ache which I wouldn't say is that painful but it's very annoying. I'm also struggling to pass urine and when I do I don't feel like I'm emptying my bladder completely. This is worse when I have a full bladder. I really don't want to go to a doctor as I'm a very private person. I know I'm not going to get a diagnosis on here but I'd like some opinions on what the possible causes could be. Sometimes I also get a burning pain after I've passed urine. Sorry for the very poor grammar....

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You need to go to a doctor asap for tests whether you want to or not. How old are you?

You need to have some tests including having your prostate checked, PSA level (blood test) maybe a urine test also. I had all the tests myself, and also a camera down my penis twice into my bladder (you won't have to) for another issue which was awful but I had to have it so I did it. This could save your life. Don't wait.

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to Ppplll

Thanks for the reply Ppplll.. so you think it could be something serious? And do you have any ideas what is possibly could be? And I'm nearly 28 so I really shouldn't be having problems with my prostate if that may be a cause..

Oh and I meant to say it's harder to pee when my bowels are full not my bladder.

Please follow the advice posted by Ppplll The problem won’t disappear on its own.

Osidge
OsidgeModerator

I have to agree with the advice you have been given. Go see a doctor. The forum is not in a position to diagnose or to even hazard what would only be a guess on the seriousness of your situation. A lot of problems for men are caused by them not seeking appropriate and timely medical advice.

Thanks for the replies everyone and I'll try hard to make an appointment.

Ohh I forgot one problem I also get numbness in my pelvic region including my upper leg. When sitting down for a period of time. Thank you for all the replies....

IP_Nightly
IP_Nightly in reply to CM_09

Best wishes

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to IP_Nightly

Thank you IP_Nightoy

Ppplll
Ppplll in reply to CM_09

You def need scans, could even be a spinal nerve that's trapped ??? Dr will sort it out. Let us all know how you get on.

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to Ppplll

Thanks Ppplll you've given me very useful information and I'll make an appointment. I don't even know if I'll be able to get an appointment due to covid situation

Hidden
Hidden

The procedure mentioned is a cystoscopy where they will check your bladder and prostrate under a general anaesthesia. You may also have some sort of infection or UTI which may need antibiotics to clear. You may also need an ultrasound of your scrotum, bladder and kidneys, as well as having to pull down your pants and underwear so the doctor can physically check your penis, so don’t be shocked or embarrassed if they ask you to do this they are professionals.

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to Hidden

My worst nightmare would be getting an erection during the exam. I think that's the thing that's stopping me. And thanks for the reply cobrakai2020

IP_Nightly
IP_Nightly in reply to CM_09

It’s unlikely. But so what? Doctors have seen it all before.

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to IP_Nightly

True thank you

Ppplll
Ppplll in reply to CM_09

I get stiffys every time my pants come off. When my ppps got lasered off, I got a stiffy through the whole procedure. When I had a vasectomy, I got a stiffy also. When I have any medical examination, I get a stiffy. And the doctors all told me the same thing, "don't worry about that, we're very used to it, it's very normal "

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to Ppplll

That's that gives me a little confidence haha

Ppplll
Ppplll in reply to CM_09

Trust me i think there's something wrong with me, but I still get all my medical things done even though I know my little friend is going to embarrass me.

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to Ppplll

I wish I had that attitude I eventually convince myself it's all good and then forget about my problems which is a dangerous thing to to.

Ppplll
Ppplll in reply to CM_09

Don't be too hard on yourself. Im on 20mg of Escitalopram daily and been on worse. We all have piles of shit to deal with and put on brave faces everyday, youre probably ten times the person you think you are. Watch some of this guy on YouTube: Jordan Peterson, Psychologist

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to Ppplll

Thanks Ppplll I'll make an appointment and get it checked out. And I'll check back with an update fingers crossed it's nothing serious.. good luck in what your doing and I hope life's treating you good. Thank you I appreciate the help and it's helped me a lot already. Cheers ..

Sounds like a prostate problem. See your doctor.

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to jimfromcalif

Would that be the cause of the no pleasure problem?

IP_Nightly
IP_Nightly in reply to CM_09

Unlikely I would think.

CM_09
CM_09 in reply to IP_Nightly

Yeah I thought that

jimfromcalif
jimfromcalif in reply to CM_09

Most likely. Here's a hint: medicinenet.com/does_an_enl...

Hello I don't suffer from insomnia but thank you

The only thing you can do is go see your GP. No one here is qualified to diagnosed anyone.

So do yourself a favor and pick up the phone before ot gets worse

we are all private people... get checked and forget about the embarrassment! In my 20's i was at a University hospital and i had a full class checking my scrotum... THAT was really embarrassing (10-12 students in their 20's too!...

you do it once it gets easier... and the older you get, i find, the less you care! :-)

I recently had fingers up my bum: the doctors must have a chaperon to avoid or in case of law suits ... so a pretty young nurse was there whilst the doctor prodded my prostate...i don't know why but if they are young and attractive i feel more uncomfortable.

Very embarrassing but nothing compared to how you would feel if you were diagnosed with something nasty and you delayed treatment because you were embarrassed!

Ask for a male doctor if it make it better, but get checked!

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