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Man trouble???

Dazgr
Dazgr

I'm looking for help and advice.

Basically I have been struggling in the bedroom for a while now well quite a while, I had put it down to other health problems I have and medication but for the past few months things have worsened and feel like have lost all connection to my penis it feels like a complete separate entity, I mean i don't even get morning erections anymore and it feels numb or I have pins and needles there. Also over the past few months I'm up and down the loo of a night but when I get there it can take up to five mins or so to start and when it does there is no pressure to the stream, it stops and starts or just stops even though bladder still feels like it has content. Sometimes the urge comes on quickly and I really need to dash to save any accidents but then can still take time to start. I feel utterly depressed like I'm not a man I feel horrible and even like I've just completely had enough, I've had other health problems for years which has me off work and now this I just feel like it's the icing on the cake!!!!

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I'm not a fan of doctors, but you need to see a urologist. You may just have an enlarged prostate gland (benign prostatic hyperplasia, BPH), prostatitis or something worse. Saw palmetto helps with the urination along with beta-sitosterol, or products that contain these. I use prostate essentials plus and it seems to help. I also use cbd oil when I go to bed and it actually keeps me asleep at night without the running to the bathroom. I had it cut down to one time a night and then started taking the cbd oil and now the majority of nights I don't even get up. I'm not saying it will work for you, but it does for me. Search the internet there is a lot of information on this. Good luck to you.

Dazgr
Dazgr
in reply to mikew254

Cheers for that m8 thanks for reply

I have all your symptoms too mate, Doc’s don’t seem that interested 🤷🏼‍♂️

Dazgr
Dazgr
in reply to NotHot77

Hmm its doing my head in litterally, im back at drs this week so guess I'll have to wait and see

NotHot77
NotHot77
in reply to Dazgr

Let me know how you get on bud

Dazgr
Dazgr
in reply to NotHot77

Yeah ok mate thanks will do

It sounds like your prostate is causing problems. You may have benign prostatic hyperplasia (BPH) or something else. See a urologist.

Dazgr
Dazgr
in reply to Bucky85

Thanks for reply I'll look that up

Sorry I can't really help with Penis problems but your bladder, possibly ?

I had issues with going to the loo WAY too often.

I received some good advice which is working for me.

Basically, the more you go, the more you need to go !

And your bladder shrinks as it knows it will be emptied soon.

You need to retrain your bladder, drink plenty of water on a daily basis, when you feel the urge to go, hold on. Increase the time daily.

So when you first feel the urge wait, say ten minutes, next time 20 minutes. When you go try and relax, sit down if needed and let the stream come.

I have gone from average of about ten times a day down to three maybe four. And despite being in my mid fifties I rarely wake in the night.

Dazgr
Dazgr
in reply to jaglad

Cheers for that I'll give it ago

Osidge
OsidgeModerator

Before you do anything to treat what you do not know you have, ask your doc for a PSA test to ensure you do not have prostate cancer.

Yeah thanks bud im there on wednesday

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