Iwas wondering how do other Lupies cope when family members just (dont get it !!??? My mother in law dosent believe how bad it can be and was quite rude about me only working part time etc I know she feels sorry for her son who works really hard and gets fed up with the long hours ,and she thinks i;m just lazy ! I quote " isn't he aloud to be ill then !!" when i said full time would be too much for me and i'm doing the best i can ! and " you could get a sitting down job " She seems to think that cause her son works hard with his complaints then why cant i !!?? ( he has a bad back at times and has lots of pain in his knee )
This happened a few mnths ago but it still winds me up when i think about it! She said so many upsetting things and i cant help not feeling the same toward her and dont think i ever will !!!!