entered hospital due to work related exhaustion...….two years mash like conditions...…...160 hours per week...………….got an abusive doctor that worked for my jerk of a mother...…...destroyed me, shared my history with the nursing staff and others...…….called my fiancé my favorite dyke...…..you don't do that where I come from which is similar to Texas...….told me NO bitching...……..had a breakdown because of him …………...
life in ruins ……..obviously doctors can say and do as they please...…..lots of violations...…...family calls me a coward because I leave a bad marriage with screaming abusive wife...……...
not asking for anything but I hate shrinks and their power...…...he should never be with patients...…..what they do in hopsitals very very immoral and unethical...…..
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had a wonderful dr s at tinley park and the staff...……...the opposite of other places......saved my best friend...………...no one cares...…….they were amazing and wonderful...…..taught us art......hope the heavens look down favorably on them...……………..so many people have had horrible ordeals and lives...…….best to you all...………..
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ver very thnkful to good doctors and peple …..please be kind to my friends and don't hurt them...…….my family thinks compassion is a weakness...……...screwy people...…….what the nurses and others see and go through...……….ugh thought vet med was bad but desnt have the same impact as peolel
This sounds traumatic. Are you on a mental health ward? That doctor sounds very unprofessional.
Not all nurses and doctors are like that. Most really care and many have been through abuse / trauma themselves which should make them more compassionate.
I also know the other side - that unfortunately some health professionals can be judgemental and cold. I just hope they are in the minority.
u r genuinell kind...……..know that you make a difference nd it helps thanks...…….
all my friends...……….in safe and very loving hands with the nurses...………..
a crumb of a doctor working for my mother...……...
the nurses will protect the others...……..they are the guardians...……..people cried and cried and cried on them forever...………..at ngith you could hear them rocking them and singing a lullby …………….around the clock care...……….four and five days and nights...………...very protective rightly so...……….very thankful for their experience and skills...…..
I’m so sorry you had to go through that. I’ve been through it too, it’s like finding yourself in a nightmare, can hardly believe it exists. That’s what happens when people find themselves in positions of power over another...many times
absolutely right...…….heard it time and time again when I worked the call lines. Have confronted the system ………..of course they just play their wall game
incredibly sorry profoundly sorry for what you went through know the nightmare or plural......they will get theirs when they cross over I assure you...…….
your conformation helps more than you can ever know...……..only other survivors can confirm and validate...……………..everyone else just says ….ya sure couldn't have been that bad...………….polyanna types...………….they have no...……………...idea what goes on in some of these places .,,,,huge abuse of power...………...
know
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have
helped
know******* in your soul
in the deepest parts of your soul...and spirit...……...
i'm so glad that at least some confirmation helps and thank you for your compassion. it is known that the psychiatric system is huge human rights abuser, one of the most dangerous places you can find yourself. -they destroy peoples lives, humiliate them in their society...i was there and i am not anymore thank god. at the same time the psych ward is needed in some cases and there can be a few good souls working there that can be trusted. so scary if the help you need can also destroy your life. sounds like now you are in a better situation? with some good support around?
(omg where have you been for thirty years...……….omg ……………..you just healed thirty years of torture...………………..
creative art center on the internet...…………...there are phenomentally caring nurses, some very not...…………...but the system doesn't care either was...……...the medical patronizing model...………….the nurses were phenomenal with the others...……..they talk at
at people for god sake...………….only will change when doctors have to be patients for a month...……..for real...….)
no one cares about our nurses or what they did...……….
ur a gift truly...……...if you were a psych nurse...……….sure you helped and comforted a lot
whatever your role...…….which doesn't matter...……..patients can tell...……..friend or nurse...………….who cares...………………...that
dear lady...……...is what turns people around...……..
have a hunch you helped a lot
just haunted by the system, what you saw, and who you couldn't protect is my guess...…...my guess Is you grieve for those you couldn't reach or save or get to because of the system...………..not trying to pry...……..just honor those who care and those who saved our friends...……...
found a sanctuary...………..amazing site...……….with amazing people...…….like someone who took the time to write and reassure me...……...took away thrity******* years of trauma...……….(no...……………………………...lie)………...just like ……………...that...……...
what
a gift she and others are here...………..a true safe site...……...
my family thiks compassion is pathology and my art and compassion...……...an embarrassment...……..
mindfreedom.org might be interesting to you, its all about this subject. there are people on here also from all kinds of different back rounds that can relate to each other. glad you feel heard.
we had 30 percent recovery in our mash like vet hospitals
they had
100 percent
starting 50 mbillion smashed points behind the start line
un
real...………...
nurses who riskedtheir careers to save people behind the scenes...……...
no one cares...……….same as the military......
we know
what we saw...……...
the failure to honor the healing caring nurses
is an inditement
of the system...……….indicative
of the real pathology...……….
And you pay for this over there?
Oh dear!
Like your avatar, by the way.
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not willingly...…….I left and fired the doctor in my mind. Next time I will just give hm a pink slip and go to the admin manager or just leave...…...they can write anything they want and will...……….but walking away...…………………….is NOT...………………..running away...……….
he isn't worth it...………….the staff ……………...was brilliant with the others...……...didn't care for me ………..not sure why ……………….thought I was a military war nut> ah...……….very misinformed...……..sure never asked me about anything or talked to me ………...just
AT
me...………...u just furniture…………….totally offbase…………...next time I will speak up and correct people...…………..good lesson in what not to do...………………...brilliant nurses thou with others...…………...all the patients crying on realizing day...…...
no one in the APNA etc interested at all...………….wrote everyone on the nurses behalf...…………….not one replied...…….
You have had such a tough time, my heart goes out to you.
I had deeply traumatic experiences in hospital that left me with PTSD. I have recently been having EMDR for this and is it helping a lot. I thought I would have to live with and be overwhelmed by the trauma before I had the EMDR, but things are very different now.
well said...………….very well said...……...why mean? don't know...……….no idea...…...
why would you do that
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to a patient?
cant begin to compute...………..mystery to me...………….shake my head in disbelief...…….….total deal breaker...………..total betrayal...………...won …..whatever they were doing...….
and by needing to win...…….
lost the patient, my vote, my endorsement...…………..my business and my donations......
I was prepared to underwrite the program on behalf of my friends...…..
now……………….all goes to St judes or others...……...
thank you...………………..to all here...……….you are such a tribute to yourselves I wish I could say more
True, My sister is married to a dr. He decided to choose psychology as his specialty... because it was the specialty where he “would have no emotional contact with patients, “ strictly drug related diagnosis and treatment. ! This is the opposite of what I would have expected if I had not heard it from my sister’s own lips!
Just the tip of the iceberg if you ask me. Most might be ok, there are those though, who have their own issues, to watch out for! Don’t be surprised when you run across them! Just trust your gut. They are not above the common man, just doing a difficult job, where they can get a king complex. Peace be to you. Trust yourself!
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Does anyone know of a PTSD meet up group and trauma recovery specialist in London,UK?
Anxiety, Depression, and PTSD from being the family scapegoat groomed by a narcissistic parent. 
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