A now former friend of mine who is lesbian ...I am not ...reported to my military command that I was suicidal. Now my command is making me submit to all kinds of exams and may lose my security clearance because of her. She knew it would turn my world upside down. Now not only have I now lost my friend, I may lose my job....and my command tells me not to call her or speak to her as it will make things worse for me. I feel so backed into a corner betrayed and manipulated. And the bottom line is I was NOT suicidal....but since she reported it that way that's the way they are processing it. I am sooooooooooooooo angry.