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i am feeling very down at the moment, i feel like my partner does not understand fibro, he says he does but he dont , as today i got my mobile phone bill in and it should be 15.50 and it was 57pounds, i was shocked as in dec i changed my tarrif so my bill would be cheaper, at the shop they said it was changed so i didnt give it another thought till my bill came in today, all my partner says it will get sorted, yes it prob will but i tried to tell him that we fibro suffers get stressed more easily than most people, we are also moving next tues, so more stressed, i cant do much but i do try its so b****y hard when you constently tird in pain, i have osteoarthritis in my knee too,, oh my god i am sorry for going on, i just need someone to talk to who will understand, i am also very sorry for not replying to any ones blog, i do read them, i just have not got the get up and go to reply, please forgive me, xxx

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hamble99b

don't apologise hun, try to keep strong,

regards,

sandra. (( :) ))

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pjmain

You are not alone, we are all in the same boat....My partner doesn't understand me and my feelings...I get told to pull myself together......xxxx

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tofty

dont apologise hunni i dont always answer blogs n questions but like reading them ,yes we do feel stress more than most ,ive been in lots of pain since the cold spell its triggered of a flare up which seems to b lasting foreva ,ive had a few tears today coz im so fed up of always havin pain but we just have to grin n bare it n carry on .take care soft hugs tofty xx

Hi there, your partner sounds very laid back ,is he going to sort out the phone bill for you?...my OH never worries and he sorts things... I,ve been with him 20 years I had fibro when I met him and over the years I have slowly come to realise that he is right, and I have learned to relax more, my sons mobile phone came in this week more than £30 more than usual my OH found out what it was before I even knew and my son was running round like a headless chicken panicking ... I also have osteoarthritis and my OH doesn't say anything he just quietly does things he knows I can't do ... He doesn't offer me continual reassurances he is just there, maybe your partner is the same and just does things when they crop up. Don't worry about not replying on here...and try to relax

Hugs VGx

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justwornout

so sorry to hear of your woes. I truly understand. my hubby doesn't understand my aches and pains either. most of my pressure points get very sore and my left hip too. I was diagnosed with fibromyalgia many years back and have learnt to live with it. take care.

Hello there Sandycat, I am so sorry to hear you are feeling so down at the moment.

Have you considered talking to the Samaritans, they are specially trained to listen to our worries and concerns? We tend to think of them just being there for emergency situations, but they are happy to talk to us about anything at all that troubles us. We can contact them at any time of the day or night to pour our hearts out, tell them everything that is worrying us, it doesn't matter whether it's about a telephone bill or anything at all.

Please give them a ring, have a chat, you might feel better after this and then have the option to call them again any time at all.

Here are their contact details -

Samaritans

08457 90 90 90

jo@samaritans.org

samaritans.org

We are always happy to help where we can, if you would like to private message Admin at any time, please feel free to do so. Everything you tell us will be in absolute confidence and we will do our best to try to help and support you the best way we can.

Please know that we are here for you and we do care about you.

Take care.

(((hug))) xxx

Libs

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sandycat

Thank you everyone for your lovely messages, its nice to hear that i am not alone with the partner situation, i just love talking to people on here, as you can understand and we help each other, many thanks, xx

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pondminstrel in reply tosandycat

hi hunny,i dont have have a partner,so i dont know whats worse having nobody and struggling or having someone who doesnt understand...sometimes i wish someone would just make me a cuppa..ah well...take care xxx

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