Well I survived Christmas, which I was dreading. Ended up at my son's for 2 days in a fibro flare, couldn't face the drive home, especially as that would have been in the house with my soon-to-be-ex husband - not a great prospect! So it was quiet, and not at all Christmassy, which suited me fine.
But now I have 2013 to look forward to, which will be difficult as dealing with all the divorce, financial separation, etc etc and I think that's going to become quite unpleasant probably. But when I come out the other side, I will be on my own, but probably not as lonely as being married to someone who doesn't care, and I will be in a smaller home, so easier to look after, and no compromises, no making the effort to do stuff for the benefit of someone who doesn't deserve it! So, all in all, once the hard bit's done, I think 2013 will be a good year for me. So I am looking forward to it.
And I wish you all a good year, with best possible health, and good family and friends to love you, care about you, and support you.