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" I am soo tired and sore I will have to sleep in the stairs" I said to my son. Reading through all your blogs and am relieved that there is such a thing as fog moments. that explains alot of my days. I always thought it was because I am dslexic and have short term memory loss?

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westgate profile image
westgate

i can so relate! a few weeks ago i couldnt remember how to work my hair tongs. i then couldnt rememeber which was my toothbrush.......a sense of humour is essential!!

xx

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dottiedog in reply to westgate

my son has a whole list of the daft thing I do & say that he reminds me of when I'm sore n grumpy which make us both laugh. Have had to learn to laugh as much as possible or I would think I'm totally bonkers!!!

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lynz

i was the same too ,its such a relief to know other people have foggy moments ,sounds silly that im pleased that people suffer but you know what i meen lol ,hugs to you xxx

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dottiedog in reply to lynz

yes I know what you mean I'm always saying / doing things back to front and you do start to think is it only me? soft hugs xxx

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rosehip

It is scary , i do washing and forget toput powder in , and went for a bottle of wine and cme out of shop with a bottle of brandy lol x

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westgate in reply to rosehip

nothing wrong with that rosehip!! xx

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dottiedog in reply to rosehip

lol I do that but some times I get wash powder n fabric condisioner wrong way round! Forget my head some times! xxx

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westgate

my hubby was gobsmacked when i said at an ESA medical that i put a curry in the dishwasher to cook and thought that someone had stolen it when i loooked in the oven later and it was gone!

the doctor presiding was suitably impressed!! lock me up now!

xx

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dottiedog in reply to westgate

never put it in the dishwasher/washing machine but have found the tea back in the cuboards or fridge instead of oven! oh dearie me find i have to write acheck list now for every thing i do. lol xxx

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scrumie

Hi its good to know we're not on our own. My fridge full of notes and magnets . . but then forget to look at them have even missed appointments. at least we can have a good laugh. xx

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dottiedog in reply to scrumie

do that too. think i being organised by writing it on calendar but write it on the wrong month opps! lol xxx

my youngest son is dyslexic and his memory is awful, Im now well known for my memory loss both short and long term

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dottiedog in reply to

So am I people think I'm a total scatter brain! well I am. I was totd that dyslexia was heredatary? Mabey you've got it too? sorry don't mean to be cheeky. soft hugs xxx

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Ginsing

Those daft moment become more frequent. I recently told my partner a building had been removed completely nothing left all gone. Imagine how i FELT WHEN i DROVE HIM PAST IT yesterday and it was completely there- I felt such a numpty .you got to smile though and it helps to understand there are others out there suffering too! Hugs xxgins

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dottiedog in reply to Ginsing

gins I am struggling more & more to make sense of what come out ma mouth! lol I've lost count of all the daft things I say. Just got to laugh. soft hugs xxx

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avarose

I know what I intended to say but very often it comes out wrong,can be very funny but I don't think I should go into politics any time soon,would be laughed off the stage!

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dottiedog in reply to avarose

same here I think I make total sense then I notice an embaressed silence or blank look on peoples faces. Thank gooodness I'm not let out much! lol

soft hugs xxxx dottiedog

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suejayjay

Oh God! Do you know you have done these things in hindsight?? Have just asked a question re memory or lack of it in the work place. Perhaps I am losing my marbles after all!

I too have 'foggy' moments, but if you KNOW you have done or not done something? Can I rely on that being the truth? I too have put the milk in the washing machine and given the dog the cat food etc. But once I realsie the mistake can laugh about it!! But if you are 100% sure you have done something. can you rely on that?

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dottiedog in reply to suejayjay

well that's a good question- just have to have faith that we are not on fog mode all the time. I find that my son sometimes takes advantage of fibro fog when he's been asked to do something& he's not! Have never been aqused of lying - now I am starting to feel more parionid that usual!! argh - no must believe in ourselves. We may be fogggy but not that forgetful.

lol soft hugs xxxx dottiedog

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gerry1

I HAD ONE VERY SCAREY MOMENT A WHILE BACK.... i FORGOT i HD TAKEN MY DAUGHTER TO PLAY SCHOOL, MY PARTNER TOLD ME I HAD DONE THAT TWO HOURS AGO, I NEVER BELIEVED HIM AND THEN WHEN i REALISED, i HAD FORGOTTEN AND LOST TWO HOURS, i WAS DEVESTATED, I CRIED ALL AFTERNOON, LUCKILY HE WAS THERE BECAUSE I WOULD NOT HAVE GONE TO PICK HER UP.........WOULD I ???

WITH LOVE

GERRY

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dottiedog in reply to gerry1

oh heck Gerry that's a bad yin- but on the plus side nothing bad happened. chin up everyones okay. Have done similar thing myself- late for picking up my son from school cos I forgot the time. We are not alone there- PM forgot his daughter an he's got no excuse! Fibro fog is scarry when you do some things like this. You would have remembered her bet your a great mum. soft hugs Jill xxx

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Mills

I just hate it when I can't find the word I'm looking for & start using other words to try & get to it!! I've had some very strange looks I can tell you, I must sound absolutely mad to other people!! lol. xx

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dottiedog in reply to Mills

hey at least now we all know why and we are not alone! had a friend that used to call me Blunder Woman cos I was always getting everyhting back to front! Have to laugh soft hugs xxx

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