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Why do I feel so tired but can't sleep?

Why do I feel so much pain but keep going?

Why do I feel hungry all the time?

Why can't I say NO without feeling guilty?

Why can't I stop and just think of ME?

WHY? Why? Why?

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we all no just how you feel,i myself can relate to everyone of your WHYS...and i think the answer to all your WHYS is...cos your YOU,lv fm me :) xx

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I know exactly how you feel and it has taken me until this year( Fibro for 20) to actually change my way of thinking and speaking to my friends and family. I now say no, and if they don't understand, I then explain until they do ( without feeling guilty) and if they still don't understand then I get them OUT of my life! if these people do not get it then it's not worth the stress. We should not have to constantly explain to our loved ones or feel guilty on top of having pain!! You have to think of YOU now, if you don't, you will get 'Flare Fter flare' and end up resenting the people you say yes to and become even more depressed.

Big hugs. Just say NO!!!! Xxxxxxx

Aw that is so try WHY ??? but it is how it is we cant change it and so we have to get on with it as best we can it is hard i know and some days we just wanna scream but dont worry your not alone we are all here for always love to you Diddle x

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sheelagh

I love all your Why?

The answer

It is always the givers that suffers

The givers are kind no matter how much they are suffering

Usually in silence

The takers keep taking and they can say sooty NO

Without a thought to others

Well this is my experance.

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kazza66 in reply tosheelagh

What about Sweep, does he say no too!? Ha ha, sorry Sheelagh, just my silly sense of humour! Lord knows we all need a good one!

Fibro Fog is a pain in the arse! :) xxx

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sheelagh

Oops the spelling Fibro Fog or lack of sleep???

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Huggybear16

Definately agree with all your whys sounds just like me x

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