this is such a long story but i had to share it with you all ,my fibro friends
me and my ex husband have been apert 12 yrs
i have always encouraged my daughters to try and stay close with him
but gradually it became apparent he was only interested when he wanted to
be ,and as long as it didnt interfeer with his life
i dont know how many times ive sat there with 2 little girls with their face pressed against the glass wauting for their daddy to come only fo him not to bother
then trying to make excuses for him so as to not upset them much ,
when they were about 5 and 7 he moved to india with his new wife ,
so thats how life was for them seeing him once maybe twice a yr
then about 2 and half yrs ago he moved back saying he had to move back as he couldnt stand to be away from his girls anymore !
so anyway thats when my girls started to see his true colours
they were older then so he couldnt hide behind presents or materialistic things
thats when they started to notice how nasty he could be
he would say to my younger daughter
"you wont ammount to nothing ! you will turn out like your mum just popping babies out all the time !"
and in the same breath say to my older daughter
" its a good job you take after me with your looks ,courtney takes after her mum she will never get a boyfriend ! "
anyway he has said and done some awful things ,i think you get the jist
so after saying he was back cause he couldnt live without his girls ,he high tailed it back to india cause he dosnt like english weather apparently
so sorry its such a long story lol
he came back last november ,hadnt seen the girls for nearly a year !
so you would think he would come straight to see them ,
NOOOO the first time he saw them was march !!!!!!!!!
anyway my eldest wasnt going to put up with his rubbish anymore !
they have seen him twice this year and he knows he is losing them both
so instead of trying to mend things he was just more and more nasty like a child
so both my daughters got together they asked me what i thought but i thought this should be their decission
so they decided to tell him they didnt want to see him anymore !
iam so proud of them !
he was gob smacked !
he has done it to himself though
how grown up are they ,like i say iam so proud ,its such a big decision
im here for them and they know that ,
i just had to share this ,
he has been a cause of many a flare up lol
thank you for reading xxxxxxx