Well I did it , it nearly bloomin well killed me but I'm glad to report I've gotten through it virtually in one piece !
Travelled back to Coventry , spent 5 days cleaning, packing and getting eldest son installed in his new flat . Handed my house back to the landlord ( now awaiting the return of my deposit , what's the betting they find reason to withhold a portion of it ) and travelled to Southampton to live with my fiancé .
Spent 2 days changing my address and filling out numerous forms , registered with the doctors here and have an appointment for Tuesday to sort out repeat prescription etc . That's it. I'm done !
Hope everyone here is OK and surviving .