Fibromyalgia Action UK

bah humbug

christmas tree only been put up tonight by hubby and daughter i am loosing the will to carry on in so much pain constantly and feeling so low i just cry all the time seeing a gynacologist on tuesday to see if they can find out what is causing violent pains in my thighs i have had enough cant get my head round christmas this year presents still not all got really struggling this year it makes me so sad as for the last 25 years since my eldest was born ive always looked forward to christmas and been organised i feel so ill all the time think people get fed up with me moaning but i dont get much help so i feel my house is messy all the time i could run no sorry hobble away right now and live on my own fed up of everyones problems,rows and always being in the wrong i cant win sorry for the rant but i feel so sad right now take care all x

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Hi joed

I am so sorry to read that you are in so much pain, and please feel free to rant all you want as it is what we are here for. I want to wish you all the best of luck with your gynecology appointment and I sincerely hope that you can find the answers that you so desperately desire and deserve.

All my hopes and dreams for you

Ken x


I can totally relate to what you are saying it is sooooo hard to give attention to other people and other things when you feel so sick and have so much pain and so little energy. It is something that non-Fibro people find it really hard to understand. I was trying to explain that to my partner recently and said that I feel like I am drowning most of the time and all I have the energy for is the absolute basics....just surviving....anything else can make me worse and is too much. Trying to find some joy in it all is very challenging. Hugs to you xxx


Welcome to the club! Sometimes I feel the makes you dwell in your own head. But people you live with can be very insensitive and its only when I 'go off on one' they realise what I'm feeling.


Sorry to hear you are feeling so low.

You are not alone. If you scarpper for the duration can i come. i feel that I just cannot live up to others expectations. It's so depressing.

How ever spring is on its way. I have bulbs pushing up already.

All things pass good and bad. Except. Pain sometimes but our ability to handle it varies. And good things are waiting in the wings.

Sending you a link from a sister site.

Look at teadrinkers reply. I found it helpful.

Here catch. Virtual pink fluffie on his way. Watch it he likes climbing Xmas trees and has ambitions of donning a pink outfit and sparkly wings to show off his tree top balancing skills. But he will eat any chocolates on his way.

And trust me too much sugar is not good for a fluffie.



So sorry you are hurting so much!!! Have you tried a pain clinic? I hope you can find the answers to help relief your pain sweetheart!!! I had lot's of female problems and it took forever to diagnose it. It was endometreosis. Best of luck and hope your appointment goes well. xxxx Mitzi


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