First miscarriage 💔💔

[Jenclarke]

I just can't believe it's happened you try so hard to stay positive when you start ivf and you have worrie from the day you start to finishes well I got my first every positive on my second cycle and now I've lost my miracle it hurts so much I can't stop crying but I know I will get through this in time I don't know if I will have another go of ivf but see how I feel 💔😭♥️🙈

[daniellecb]

Aww no, so sorry to hear this 😔 absolutely heartbreaking! Its so difficult to comprehend after such amazing news, such a cruel world. Give yourself time to grieve your loss and be kind to yourself. Sending big virtual hugs xxx

[Mara84]

I’m so sorry to read about your loss, miscarriages are really hard to deal with, I do hope you never experience this loss again and with time your heart heal little by little. ❤️

[Jam-master]

It’s just shit, there are no other words. It will take time but you will start to feel better. Take time and be good to yourself xx

[Duchess2018]

Big hugs x

[ashalez]

I'm so sorry to read about your loss,Its hard to deal with,I do hope next time you will have better out come, sending you big virtual hug xxxxx

[Saladgirl86]

Sending hugs xxx

[Infragilis]

I am really sorry. I am going through the same thing. First successful IVF and it has ended in a miscarriage which is taking long. I was over a week on bed rest when the spotting and blood started and the clinic doubled my progesterone but when I went for the 7 week scan there was hardly anything visible. In the 5 week 6 day scan the sac was there and of good size. Once I stopped progesterone a day and a half later it started to happen naturally and was really painful but it's getting better now. When I was on bed rest I said I can't do this again but now that it's nearing the end I want to try IVF again and we are planning a cycle in January. I might change my mind as it's an emotional time. I've read so many posts of women who are going through or have been through this. Sadly it's comforting knowing you are not alone and I take courage in other people's stories of how they went on to try again and managed. I wish you a speedy recovery both physically and emotionally and know you are not alone.

[edytadesign in reply to Infragilis]

I am going through something very similar, apart form my one wasn't physically painful. Only one night a peek day I was nearly took some pain killer, but managed without it. I was bleeding for very long too probably for a good months all together very light blown, and only 3 days heavily. It just stopped, and I really for my frozen embryo transfer in early new year. Huggs. Supposed to be better from now on...

[Infragilis in reply to edytadesign]

I'm glad it finally stopped. Wishing you the best of luck for your transfer.

[edytadesign in reply to Infragilis]

Thx, Schnitzel84, I think I am already ovulating now. My discharge was sticky so I took an ovulation test, it shows positive, so hopefully not nong now to start my next period.

[Jenclarke in reply to Infragilis]

It's so horrible I went into work and been sent home so I will be resting for the week and let my body finishes I'm still pain and still bleeding and feel uncomfortable thanks hun appreciate very much good luck in your nexts cycle if u decide to have another go xxx

[Infragilis in reply to Jenclarke]

I'm still in pain aswell and have to rest as when I don't the pain increases and I feel very tired. Hopefully this won't much longer for both of us. I really wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide is best for you.

[Abibridget]

Sorry for your lost😭😭 stay strong 💪

[kiwibaby]

It just sucks. I know the pain.

[Italy300618]

I'm so sorry for your loss. After the trials and tribulations of ivf to start with, life is so cruel to let this happen. There is no worse feeling, and it will take time, but you will start to heal, sending big hugs xxx

[Sammy246]

I'm so sorry to hear this. It's an emotional journey as it is and having a miscarriage feels like the last straw. The pain is unbearable and so raw atm, but time is a great healer. I've had 2 miscarriages this year and at times I feel so deflated. I hope you have a good support system which can help you with the pain and emotions your going through. Sending you virtual hug and love xx

[Hidden]

I am so so sorry for you. This is undeniably a very hard time . You have to concentrate on yourself right now and get yourself strong and well again. A lot has and is still going on in your body that you can't see. Take this time to heal and get strong again, that's your only job for now. No need to make any future discisons today. Sending you love. Mind you. Xx

[nT455]

So sorry to hear this!😔

[Maisie234]

I really feel for you. IVF is beyond painful, but I promise it will get better. Just look after no.1 just now and get your strength back. I hope you can take as much time as you need off to rest. It won't be forever. Sending a hug. XX

[Hidden]

Im very sorry for your loss Jen. Its horrible to have that hope snatched away from you. No one understands your pain as the ladies here. Its good to mourn it and let it flow. Its also normal to be very scared and unsure of what the future brings. Sending you masses of love 💕

[Angels2us]

Oh so sorry, it’s so shit isn’t it and no one understands until they have done ivf , I have loads of chemicals so I understand it’s heartbreaking, but I think give yourself time to heal and get yourself well and try again, if you can that’s what I do , it’s horrible sending you hugs xxxxx

[Franjohn]

I’m so sorry for your loss xxxx

[Sas1101]

I'm so sorry Jen 💔 take as much time as you need to rest. Don't worry about making any decisions today, just look after yourself. Big hugs xx

[Hidden]

So sorry to hear about your loss! Thinking of you and praying that one day you will get there...dont give up x

[Jenclarke]

Thank u everyone for your nice wishes yes I'm going to rest get myself strong again before I make a nexts steps xx

[Lots8788]

I'm so sorry. Big bug hugs to you xx here if you want to talk

[sunset212]

So so sorry for your loss. can comprehend went through a very early loss at 7 weeks. We are all here for you, and each other. New year, new start new embryo fingers crossed next time is the one! X

[Rosiettc]

Hello pet the exact same thing happened me back in end of oct past... i spent the last few weeks on a emotional rollercoaster from hell. It is 3 weeks since me D&C and thankfully im having more up days than down days. Let yourself grieve pet. Talk to your partner as they are going through it as well. My sister had few miscarriages so i found it good talking to someone one that went through he same thing....ok she doesn't have the extra heartbreak of not having her own kids and the struggles of IVF like we do but i found talking really does help. Ok im not looking forward to christmas this year but we just have to get through each day at a time pet.. Thinking on you at this horrible time XXXXXXXX it does get easier

[RhinoCat]

So so sorry you are going through this pain 💐💐💐💐💐 the same happened to me so I know exactly how shitty and heartbroken you are right now, time softens the pain for most of the days but my advice is just to cry as ya feel ya need to because this part is truly the most cruel and painful. Be kind to yourself and ignore the heartless people who just say it’s one in four or try again or any other useless thing that won’t help.

You’ve just had your heart smashed, it’s not fair and I wish I could fix it for you. Hold tight to the golden people in your life 😘💐

[Hells18]

So sorry, thinking of you x