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First ivf fresh cycle, missed miscarriage

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I am 32. My first ivf ended in a miscarriage at 8 weeks unfortunately. It’s so hard to come out of it and I am just so devastated. If there are any success stories with FET, please let me know so it would give me some hope. Looking forward to your replies.

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Libsie3103

I’m so sorry to hear this, it’s heartbreaking. We had a MMC after our 2nd cycle so understand what you’re going through. I’m afraid I’ve not had a FET after the miscarriage yet but just wanted to wish you the best of luck xxx

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Ivfgotadream

I’ve had 5 miscarriages 2 ruptured ectopics - I’ve only ever done FET - I’m currently 5 weeks pregnant from a double FET - this is my 4th transfer

For some age groups - particularly late 30s and older FET actually has better success rates x

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Positivevibe in reply to Ivfgotadream

Congratulations !! 😊 very happy for you. Wishing you a successful pregnancy

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KiboXX

I’m so sorry your first cycle ended that way, I had a mc on my first cycle as well and I know how devastating it is. I didn’t get any Frosties that cycle but I did on a later cycle and I am currently pregnant from my first frozen transfer so don’t give up hope. Sending big hugs and positive vibes for your FET xxx

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12356

Am currently 25 to 26weeks gone from FET

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Sweetie123

So sorry to hear this 😔 must be awful for you. I’m currently 27 weeks pregnant after having a FET in January. Do you have some frozen embryos? I only had the one and it worked!! Xxx

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Positivevibe in reply to Sweetie123

Congratulations! Yes, I do have frozen embryos. But I am a little scared to go thru with it again thinking if it will also end the same way 😥. But will anyway go thru with it. Do you remember the timeline for FET ? I mean is it any shorter than that the fresh IVF cycle ?

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Sweetie123 in reply to Positivevibe

Thank you. I know it must be so hard but try think really positively and try look after yourself get lots of rest and nice baths and pamper yourself.

FET is so much shorter than fresh cycle and cheaper!Youve already done all the hard work having the eggs collected etc. We were referred back in November, had nurse consultation in December and started treatment straight away. Had the FET beginning of January.

If you ever need anything please feel free to message me, I’m here to help if I can xxx

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Positivevibe in reply to Sweetie123

Thank you so much Sweetie123 . I have my D and C scheduled on Wednesday. And I hope I get my cycle back soon so I can start with FET in August. Your reply really helped me a lot❤️

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Sweetie123 in reply to Positivevibe

You are so welcome. Really hope everything goes as well as it can on Wednesday. Take care xxx

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Exhaurex

I have had 4 misscariages in total and an ectopic. My first fresh transfer ended in missed misscariage at 9 weeks last year. As soon as we were able we transferred two embryos frozen and one survived and I’m currently 37 weeks just another few weeks to meet my baby. I found frozen embryos to stick and develop a lot better than a fresh because it has a harder environment to survive in. Good luck with your transfer xox

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Positivevibe in reply to Exhaurex

Thank you so much for your reply and congratulations😊 I hope it’s the same with me too.

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