I am writing this with a heavy heart. I started bleeding at 16wks which lasted for only a few hours and I was rushed to the hospital and kept on bed rest. I had no pain or cramps whatsoever. They did scans and said everything was alright but didn’t know where the bleeding came from but said it was a reassuring sign that it had stopped so, I was discharged the next day. 4 days later, they called saying my swab was back and I had vaginal thrush and asked me to come back to the hospital to pick up cotrimazole vaginal tablet and flucloxacillin oral tablet.
I started taking the medication that night and my baby was already 17wks 2 days. The next day, I started bleeding again with heavy cramping on my waist. I rushed to the hospital and no one could attend to me until after nearly 3hrs at emergency department. By the time I was seen by a doctor and midwife, my baby was already nearly born and they said that it was inevitable miscarriage and nothing can be done to save him. At 17wks+ 3days, I delivered the baby alive and still had a heartbeat but they said it was not up to the age of viability and could not be rescucitated. The sex was indeterminate even though it had masculine features so we concluded it was a boy.
Has anyone here ever experienced something similar and did they find out the cause of the early contraction.
Also, what do you guys think they should have done to prevent this from happening?
I really need answers so please help with any information you have got on this.
I was worried if my cervix was weak but they didn’t think so even though they didn’t investigate it. What do you guys think?
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hi Angelsalt1 something very similar happened to me. I had had several first trimester miscarriages before and had finally made it to 12 weeks. Around 17 weeks, I started noticing a slight different discharge and freak out. After testing, I was told I had thrush, which was weird cause I did not have any itching or redness. A few days later, I started bleeding and went to the emergency room, two times actually, and both times was told the baby was fine and that maybe the thrush was making my cervix irritated, hence the bleeding. I was not convinced but had to try and believe them. Four days later I started having contractions (pain at a regular interval that feels like you want to go to the toilet) and had our baby at 18 weeks and 4 days. There are no definite answers why. The most clear one seems to be a weak cervix as I had a Lletz in the past, but there is no definitive answers. Ever! I am so sorry for your loss.
This is exactly my experience. I am so sorry you experienced this as well. I believe there was a lot they could have done to prevent this from happening when they see patients like us with similar presentation.
Since then, the speech from doctors has been very much like “next time we’ll monitor you closely”, next time “we’ll put in a cerclage”, but I’ve now turned 40 and I’m not even sure there will be a next time, and if there is, I’m sure I’ll be constantly scared every day. Also, we live in a tiny town in Ireland, hospitals here are looking at the 90% and I was the 10%, the least common scenario.
This is not an easy path. Wishing you serenity and peace.
I am just so heartbroken to read this. This happened to me 2 years ago at 20 weeks and 5 days. I went in for bleeding and they scanned the baby and she was really strong. Then they did a vaginal and said my cervix had dilated 3cm and the membranes were bulging out. They did an instant test for thrush which was positive. They tried inverting me to see if the sac would go back and they could do an emergency cerclage but I was too far into labor. Our little girl was born alive as well and her heart beat for nearly 2 hours in my arms before we lost her. The doctor who delivered her thought it was the thrush that led to early labor, but three other doctors I've seen think it was cervical insufficiency. I really hate this answer, but I've heard this from about 5 doctors I've seen - we will probably never know the exact reason.
In any case, with my current pregnancy (I'm only 8 weeks), my high risk doctor will do a history based cerclage at 13 weeks and give me progesterone pessaries starting at 16 weeks to try to prevent early labor. Her thinking is why not cover all the bases. I may not need the cerclage (60% of women who have a preterm labor do not have another one), but she said she'd rather be safe than sorry. And I whole heartedly support her reasoning.
I am just so so sorry that you're going through this. My inbox is open if you need any support in any way. I'll be thinking of you.
Thank you so much for your response. I have this strong feeling that I was not properly managed. They did not do a vaginal scan when I presented with the bleeding a few days before. They only used a speculum and said cervix was closed and fine. Few days later I was in labour and it was too late to do anything.
Can I ask how long it took you after your incident before you got pregnant again?
I’m so sorry… it’s so hard in these cases. I was told the same as the person above - now we will monitor you closely etc. what about then?
It took over two years. I originally got pregnant with letrozole and timed intercourse but couldn’t get pregnant again with the same treatment. So we moved on to ivf and I became pregnant with my third pgt-a transfer.
Thank you... If I could give any advice on if/when you want to try again it's to listen to your own mind, soul and body. You'll know when you're ready. I tried again too soon in retrospect and it didn't work. Now, I'm actually in a better place.
when I got thrush, everyone told me it was of no concern, super common, but at least three people in this chat lost a baby soon after being diagnosed with thrush… is that just meant to be a coincidence???
Honestly, it bothers me. They could have asked me to come back for further assessment instead, they sent antibiotics and I lost the baby the next day after starting the medication.
Devastated to read this. I am feeling for you my lovely. No one expects to have to go through these things and have all your dreams taken from you. I hope you find a way to manage it all xx
Oh sweetheart! My heart is breaking for you. I really don't think there's anything you could've done to prevent this from happening. It sounds like you did everything. I'm not a medical professional so wouldn't want to speculate as to the reason why it happened. I think it's perhaps a little unusual that the sex of the baby couldn't be determined as you can get gender scans from 15 weeks but, again, I don't know anywhere near enough to say whether that could indicate a medical problem with the baby. I just want you to know that there truly isn't anything you could've done. You did all the right things in going to the hospital to get checked. Sending you all my love X
I haven’t had the same experience, but I just want to say I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. It’s heartbreaking to go through something like this, and my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. x
First of all, i am sorry. From what i've read over the years, two things can be done. 1.Testing and monitoring for chorioamnionitis, which is an infection of the waters in the womb and 2.cervical cerclage.
I’ll keep this in mind although I mentioned the cyclage but they insisted that it was not indicated. They only did a swab of the water and said I had vaginal thrush and prescribed antibiotics which I only took two doses just before I went into early labour.
Maybe next time, I’ll insist to have the cyclage done no matter what.
I was bleeding 3 times during my last pregnancy. A lot as well. No1 at 14 weeks. Too early nothing could be done. It stopped and we went home after 1 night at ER. I was told with bleeding after 20 weeks of gestation I can come to delivery suit. So that’s where I went bleeding heavily at 23 weeks. Bleeding stopped after a few days and I was already bordering viability for resuscitation so they monitored me closely and what I learned was that in my case the bleeding was most likely caused by placental abruption. No clear cause in my case. It just happens. And the doctors were preparing for me to deliver my baby because they said heavy said heavy bleeding can induce labour. As simple as that. They could do nothing but wait. Not sure if this information helps.
I’m really happy for you that you got to viability stage and got the help you needed. I honestly prayed to get to that stage and wouldn’t mind delivering my baby at 23wks and get resuscitated as long as I can go home with my baby. Unfortunately we didn’t make it. I am optimistic and hoping for the best in my next trial.
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