It's been two years since my last post titled end of the road after 3 cycles of ivf I had to except that having a family was not an option I even offered my husband a divorce. Gradually I grieved and life took over. My elderly parents needed me and I concerntrated on them.
Then a year ago this week I fell pregnant naturally. I was eating and drinking what I wanted, stressing about my parents who sadly both died within a few weeks but I still fell pregnant. getting pregnant was the last thing on my mind especially as my consultant could never give me a reason for my infertility.
I guess my post is about don't live by everything the consultants say, I wasted so much time putting my life on hold hoping for a baby. Don't let the process define you relax, god I detoxed, took cocktails of vitamins, ate a huge amount of pineapple etc. I actually fell pregnant after two bottles of champange
It's such a difficult process emotionally and physically that puts pressure on all aspects of your life. I wish someone had said stop letting it define who you are focus on the positives in your life right now. For me it was my parents who I was able to devote my time to which I wouldn't of been able to if I had a baby.
I wish all of you good luck on your journey's just keep hold of you and dont let those three letters blur everything.