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An angel in the Book of Life wrote down my baby's birth, then quietly closed it whispering, 'Too beautiful for earth'.

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The last 10 days have been the hardest in my life and I have many more difficult days to come. I am devastated and heartbroken. My repeat scan confirmed my baby had died and now I am miscarrying. A part of me has died.

I am saying farewell as I need time to heal. It's going to be a slow process I fear. I have no one to hold for support. I am finding it difficult to cope.

I wish you all the best for your journeys.

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Tugsgirl

So so sorry for your loss 😞 xx

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Pandash

That's awful. :( Take your time to take care of yourself and to grieve. There are brighter days in your future, it wont always be darkness xxx

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Cinderella5

So sorry to read this, your loss is unimaginable! Look after yourselves! Sending you big hugs!xx

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pm27

I'm so sorry. I found The Miscarriage Assimilation helpline & website helpful. Mc is so unfair. Take lots of care.

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Nesfin

I have a fairly good idea how you could be feeling at the moment and anything I say is grossly inadequate to comfort you in any way. All I want to remind you of is that you're not alone, we are all here for you. It may seem no good for you right now but if you close your eyes I'm hoping that you can feel the loving energy around you and hopefully it will go some way to carry you through the darkest moments. And always remember that over time you will never forget but you will learn to manage the pain. It will get easier, I promise you that. Don't punish yourself in any level but let it all out, whatever you're feeling. Lots of big hugs xoxo

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bms12 in reply to Nesfin

Couldn't have said something better if I had tried, this is so lovely and true xxx

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bibi_16

Very sorry for ur loss dear one. Feel very sad for you.x. ahhhh just have no words of what u are going thorugh. My heart feels ur pain. When u said u wanted to say fairwell. My heart melted fpr you. I will pray for u that you find ease and comfort.xxx

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Hollibob

Hey.

Sadly I have been there too. You feel like your whole world has fallen apart and you can't see moving forward as an option. You have to take each minute, hour, day as it comes and in your own time. I promise you, you will get your determination and strength back one day, but there will always be a part of your heart that will feel the numb pain.

X

So sorry to hear that, thinking of you 💕💕

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Kelly-03

I am so sorry to hear this and I so hope that one day it is your time and just take all the time you need. Thinking of you xx

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Sunshine09

So sorry for your loss, thinking of you xx

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emu2016

Love, hugs and peace x

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Beebeestar

I'm so sorry Hellsbells. I hope you find some comfort soon. Take time for yourself to re think and get positive again.

I wish you the best. For now lots of hugs. 🤗

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CountryCat

Immensely sad. I don't have the words to say how sorry I am. Holding you in my thoughts xx

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-noodles-

i am so sorry for your loss. thinking of you & hoping you find strength in the difficult days ahead xxx

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Beanme

Hellsbells36 my heart goes out to you at this time. Im so sorry for your loss. Be good to yourself and if you want to vent we are all here for you:)

My heart goes out to you, words just seem so inadequate right now because I know how hard the loss is, I promise that things will begin to get better and the pain will become more manageable with time.xxxx

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AllyBell88

Sorry for your loss. This is the hardest thing in the world. I experienced this exact thing 6 weeks ago. Hearts still broken but somehow you get through it, you have to.. r u having time off? I found work a welcomed distraction after a week at home. Sending love xx

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Fatooli28

Am deeply sorry 🙏🏼sending a husband he hug 🤗 time is the best healer.... sigh 😔 let this time pass and when ready we are all here. 💓🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🔮🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻#strength #warrior #angelbaby 🙏🏼✨✨✨✨✨✨

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sipidania

So sorry Hellsbells. Your baby will live in your heart forever, they will always be a part of you. We are all here for you and are sending love at this heartbreaking time xxx

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Hannah143

I'm so sorry to read your post, my heart breaks for you. Sending you big hugs take care of yourself xx

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Smithha

I'm so sorry to hear this, this is such heartbreaking news x💔💔 thinking of you at the sad and difficult time xx sending you lots of love xxxxx

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Se99

I'm so sorry, losing a baby is the hardest thing, take some time out, feel everything and with time you will get stronger x

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Ketajean

So sorry for your loss. I can't even begin to imagine. Look after yourself one day at a time. Thoughts are with you. Xx

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72cloud9

oh my gosh, your heading had me in tears, what beautiful heartbreaking words...

So very very sorry for your loss. Cant even begin to find words of comfort as I know nothing at the moment will ease your pain.

Dont say farewell as your support is here. We will try our best to hold you up thru this time. If you feel you have no one to hold on to, Im sure we could find on here if theres anyone local to u to meet up if you felt it might help - I think a lot of us will have some idea of the emotions that you are going thru right now

all i can do for now is send you love and hugs and sorrow for your loss xxxx

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MimiSvet

so so sorry for your loss, be positive, do not loose hope - life has something amazing for you out there, belive it.

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