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[dutchgirl71]

Hi. I’m not new to HealthUnlocked, but am new to this bereavement group, sadly. My mom is actively .passing. It is so hard to watch, yet I am so blessed to be with her now (and my family). This is the last place I want to be, yet the only place…ya know?

Thank you for letting me chat here…I am so, so sad.

[kenster1 Volunteer]

Hi and welcome to the forum seen your post on the depression anxiety forum and was happy that another member told you about this forum. I`m so sorry to hear of your dearest mums illness thinking of you and all the family.

[dutchgirl71 in reply to kenster1]

Thank you Kenster1. Can’t say I’m happy to be here, but thank you for the welcome.

[kenster1 Volunteer in reply to dutchgirl71]

yeah it`s a difficult situation faced it myself with both parents having this forum has been a great help for me over the years. I know times are difficult and it can be hard to put on a brave face but that helped me a lot.

[chloe40 Administrator]

Hello dutchgirl71

A very warm welcome to you.

I’m sorry you’re going through such a painful time.

Losing your dear Mom in front of your eyes is tragic. I experienced the same with my Dad and remember every moment.

I’m glad you have the support of your family around you, each of you will be experiencing a rollercoaster of emotions but try to talk together, it helps.

We all feel for you and hope you’ll keep in touch here for support.

Thinking of you at this difficult time.

Chloe

[klr31]

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[Caza]

it’s hard for sure. I looked after my father-in-law my mother -in-law & my mum & it’s bloody hard. I was with my sister & a close friend when they died much too young It doesn’t haunt me & I was just so pleased that hopefully I brought them comfort I wouldn’t have had it any other way

Know exactly what you mean don’t want to be there but don’t want to be anywhere else

Stay strong

[dutchgirl71 in reply to Caza]

absolutely!