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I dreamt of my loved one and

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It was as real as if he were here with me. I've never dreamt of him before and I always wondered why.

The problem is that all day yesterday I found it very disturbing and this upset me.

Has this happened to you?

Chloe<3

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Dipsy23

This happened to me it was like my mum was still here it made me feel really good it was like old times but of course it was not to be honest it made me feel sad but reminded me what good times we had

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Dipsy23

Thank you Dipsy23That must have been reassuring for you.

<3

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KT22

I’ve had a couple of distressing dreams about my loved ones, both involved him being very ill & I was frantically trying to save him. I woke crying my eyes out as I realised he would never be here again. I long to have a good dream with him healthy & happy.

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chloe40Administrator in reply to KT22

Yes, KT22 I can see that would be very distressing for you, very sad.

<3

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Sandradsn

I should think it was upsetting for you and sad xx

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Sandradsn

Thank you Sandradsn <3

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get them regular Chloe good dreams and bad dreams and yeah when you wake up its hard to shake it off.

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chloe40Administrator in reply to kenster1

Thanks Kenny @Kentser1It was just a shock really, I never thought it would ever happen. Initially I was really happy but as the day went on, I found it pretty disturbing, I'm okay now though <3

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kenster1Volunteer in reply to chloe40

from time to time I can still hear my mums voice even this week it happened its strange but for that moment it feels good.

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chloe40Administrator in reply to kenster1

Thanks for the reassurance Kenny <3

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Lperica10

Aw glad to hear you are ok now. My dad is in a lot of my dreams. I like it most if not all have been good memories and happier times. That is interesting that you haven’t and all of a sudden you did.

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chloe40Administrator in reply to Lperica10

Thanks Lperica10 Yes, it has been a long time and maybe that was the shock but I'm okay now although strangely enough, I'm trying not to think about it whereas normally, I would go over every moment of a dream of a close loved one.

Take care <3

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