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Have you plans to commemorate your loved one.....

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this weekend and if so, please share what you have planned. Perhaps planting a favoured flower, rose or shrub or visiting a special place that your shared together.

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I've noticed a dedication on a bench at my local crem. three and a half years after the sister died. I've had thoughts about commemoration but cannot decide on what. Each time i look at that bench it reminds me to be patient. Maybe sometime over soon the what will come to me, till then i'll settle for gardening, a simple meal or just remembering the good times.

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I like an idea of a bench with a metal plate on it, somewhere in a nice place with nice view which was maybe a special place for them or both of you...

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chloe40Administrator in reply toNathalie99

That's a lovely idea Nathalie99 you would be able to visit when ever you wished and contemplate, really calming I feel.

Chloe

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I agree, when you are ready you will make a decision Greyone and it does not have to involve huge expense either. It's the little things that really count and we all know what we are comfortable with.

Chloe

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Lperica10

I planted a flower garden last year for my dad I plan on doing the same this year. Hoping to do it soon 🌻

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That's so lovely Lperica10

Seeing the garden flourish in your Dad's memory is lovely x

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I want to post a pic of mine from last year and this years too 🌸

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Please do Lperica10 :)

Chloe

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