Can anyone actually remember the voice of their loved one?

[chloe40]

Every time I think I have it, it immediately fades away, it's so frustrating!

Chloe<3

[Sandradsn]

yes I can,I hope it doesn't fade away x

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Sandradsn]

That's wonderful Sandradsn I really hope it does.

<3

[Floxxy]

Yes, I can as their voices are on videos, very happy to have these memories. X

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Floxxy]

You're very luck Floxxy

Now this is where videos really com into their own <3

[Josephine13halffull]

I can for now. I also have the voice on video.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Josephine13halffull]

That's great Josephine13halffull

I never had any videos nut really wish I had <3 it would have been so helpful in more ways than one I feel <3

[kenster1 Volunteer]

yeah my mum and dad mostly still picture my aunts voice but not my son.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to kenster1]

It's really strange isn't it, the more you more try the more you just don't 'hear' kenster1

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[Jilliebea]

Yes. I keep hearing her last words repetitively. I cry every time.

[Caza]

This made me think? I hear what they say but is it in their voice or mine 🤷‍♀️ In all honesty I can’t say. I too have videos but I can’t watch them I’ve tired but much too painful.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Caza]

Now that's a very good response Caza

You have the videos and that's comforting, time enough to watch in the future <3

[Caza in reply to chloe40]

Do you know I don’t think I ever will Chloe. I did try once & they just made me so much worse if that’s possible. But as you say they’re there if ever I change my mind x

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to Caza]

I understand, hopefully way into the future you will Caza {{{hugs}}}

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[socratesanne]

I remember the day I lost her, I had just erased messages from her and to this day, I am so sad that I had done this. I keep all my messages now just to assure anyone I am close to will be there for me. I had also just erased my mother by accident and this also grieves me. Although I can remember most voices of those I have lost.

[chloe40 Administrator in reply to socratesanne]

That must be hard for you<3I haven’t even thought about keeping messages socratesanne from by phones but I surely will now thank you 🙏

Chloe x

[Lperica10]

Yes I have voicemails saved on my phone from my dad. I am so glad I have them for his voice but I am sad that they were from in his last 2 months and some are very sad he’s calling from the hospital or asking to be taken to the hospital or for help. So yes I have them I have not listened to them in a while. But am glad I have them.

[chloe40 Administrator]

Oh, I so wish I had done that too Lperica10 It's a real treasure for life xx

[GonnaMissDaddy]

Daddy died in May of 2017. I can still hear him calling my name. I hope and pray I can imagine that, until the moment I die. Mama died in 1975 and I can sort of hear her laughter. I miss them both more than any normal person should but I can't help it