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I'd love to send my Dad a huge hug

and let him know he's in my thoughts often x

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My sister, she’s still alive but it’s getting very near to the first anniversary of losing her husband and she’s getting very upset and dreading the day. My husband died 11 years ago so been able to support her knowing exactly how she feels and what’s on her horizon, although we all grieve differently, I know her pain, like we all do on here. Love to her husband, he’d hate to see her sad. Big hug to mine too. In fact big hug to us all Take care 🦊x

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That's always so difficult Hidden

I feel it's worse than than the anniversary day itself. I can imagine like yourself, how upset she is feeling, the dread is unbearable at times.

You have a good deal of experience and I'm sure your sister is very thankful.

That hug is very welcome here too, thank you Hidden

Chloe x

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bunty25

My Mum, l have lost a number of close family, including my sister, and son and it really hurt but no one left as a big a whole as my Mum and l would love to give her a hug once more x

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Hi bunty25

Good to hear from you.

That’s an awful lot of loss to go through x

Yes, lovely hugs for your dear Mum x

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Caza

it would always go to my daughter & sister. & a special hug for a friend who died just two months ago. I was with his widow yesterday. She seems to be coping well. But I know it’s such early days & I know it takes awhile to really hit you. Another friend faces 6yrs without her husband today. She’s has just started the process of selling her house up to then nothing has been touched. Tough time for her. She now has a boyfriend so I’m hoping that the pain is easing. We’ve lost 3 friends in just two months. Another funeral to face in 10days time.

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Yes, of course Caza your daughter and sister were so special x

So many friends who've lost a loved one, my goodness, there are times when it seems just too much

x.

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CL3V3R-G1RL

I would love to send love and hugs to my grandpa and grandma.

I lost my grandma when I was in the 2nd grade. I miss climbing into her bed and being snuggled by her. Everything just felt safe. Nothing could hurt me there.

I lost my grandpa a few years later after my grandma passed. He would have fun with me. I would have "coffee" with him. And read the comics in the newspaper to him while he tinkered with his glasses or something small. I would have loved to have showed him all the wonderful things that have came out after his passing. When I play Red Dead Redemption 2 I think about him because he loved westerns and I know he would have been amazed by it.

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chloe40Administrator in reply toCL3V3R-G1RL

Such beautiful memories CL3V3R-G1RL

Grandparents deserve lots of love and hugs for sure x

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my friend has ben in hospital for nearly 3 weeks been to visit him 5 times chance he might get out next midweek but I`m wishing him all the best for the future although his battles are going to be tough.

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Sending your friend strength and healing kenster1 Kenny. I really hope he recovers.

x

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I text him from the bus after volunteering as I was nearly at the hospital but he signed himself out earlier as he was feeling depressed being stuck in hospital but hopefully he`ll be ok.

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