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Moving out of my loved one's home. It sold. I only know this home with my love.

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My fiance died of cancer, 2 days before Christmas last year. We were supposed to have at least two years. We were going to move out of the house into an apartment. The house just last week, closed. Signs of my beloved are going away quickly. It hurts tremendously I have to leave and go into emergency housing...to a place we have never been together. The holidays I have already written off. I get so depressed and cannot move..I know many of you know what I mean. Nov 1st starts my journey without him, even though, he will forever be in my heart. Thanks for listening xo

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hi really sorry to hear that god bless your dear partner and you as well.to lose someone is hard but even harder two days before Christmas my dad passed easter sunday. cherish the amazing memories forever don't ever let them go.have you reached out for support from family/friends or even a therapist for bereavement it really will help.god bless and take care.

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LaurieL13 in reply tokenster1

Thank you so very much xo

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chloe40Administrator

Hello LaurieL13

Oh, how I feel for you {{{Hugs}}} I'm so sorry.

Your going through such an awful time, your loss is so very raw.

Naturally you feel cheated and lost with your love and I'm sending you strength to face the coming journey but please know you are among friends who care about you and there is always one of our wonderful members here who will answer your posts, so please do keep in touch.

With love

Chloe x

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LaurieL13 in reply tochloe40

Thannk you for your kind words and thoughts xo It means a lot to me...

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Nathalie99

I'm so sorry, Laurie. This is beyond tragic and traumatic.

This is so unfair that you not only lost your Love but also the only place associated with your time together and moving to emergency housing sounds really tough.

I know that in my times of losses having a home was the foundation that kept me together as it was already tough enough.

I can't even express how much I feel for you and your loss.

Sending love your way 💙

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bikergrove

So sorry to hear this, hope you have some good friends or family to lean on for a little while. Eventually you will get settled again i'm sure, but the loss of a loved one takes time to recover from and you must give yourself time.You are in my thoughts .

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DottieLucy

LaurieL13, I am very sorry for your loss of your fiancé as well as your home together. Those are two really big losses so close together. I will be praying for you.

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