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I just had a tragic loss in my family. My 17 year old cousin was killed in a car accident. This is just so terrible. I feel awful for his parents (my aunt & uncle) as he was their world. He was a great person, so kind and caring, so sweet. Had his whole future in front of him. I don't know how I am going to do the funeral tomorrow and Saturday...

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Nathalie99

I am so very sorry to hear this very tragic news, Lperica10.

Sudden death like that and so young is such a shock. It is beyond comprehension.

Sending you a lot of support right now...

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Lperica10 in reply toNathalie99

Thank you. It is beyond comprehension.

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JOLLYDOLLY

So sorry for your loss Lperica10, It is so hard to lose anyone close, especially someone so young. Just take everything one hour at a time and just let yourself grieve. Thinking of you :) <3 x.

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Lperica10 in reply toJOLLYDOLLY

Thank you.

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jaykay777

Lperica -- My thoughts are with you. I'm sure your presence at your cousin's funeral will help comfort your aunt and uncle.

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Lperica10 in reply tojaykay777

Thank you.

Hello Lperica 10

I am so sorry to hear of the tragic loss of your cousin at such a young age. What a huge shock for all the family.

The funeral will be so hard LPerica as your cousin was so young but you wiil find the strength to get through.

Take one day at a time as you grieve Lperica. We are always here for you.

Love and blessings, Lottie x

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Thank you.

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Thinking of you, especially tomorrow.

Lottie x

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Lperica10

This is a tragedy, I am so very sorry. You will find the strength to support your Aunt and Uncle and we'll be here to support you!

We are keeping you in our hearts and thoughts.

Chloe xx

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Lperica10 in reply tochloe40

Thanks.

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chrissapam

am so sorry. Particularly as I do know what it's like....nothing will console his parents and indeed the wider family.

While not particularly religious, I do wonder if there are evil forces at work. It always seems to be the nicest and kindest who suffer. I think they are in a better place, as is my 8 year old triplet son...perhaps there really is some truth that some are too good for this world. Hope you can support your family and yourselves. It wil be dreadful for you, particularly as he was obviously deeply loved by many...perhaps in time something can be turned to good..but suspect there will not be a great deal of comfort in that.

With so much love and compassion, Chris xxx

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Lperica10 in reply tochrissapam

Thank you.

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Natsteveo

Oh my Lperica10 I am so so very sorry for your loss of such a fine young man losing anyone is tragic but to lose such a lovely young man so young is horrific and beyond words we send you and your family hugs and condolences from all here at bereavement and care and once again so very sorry here if you want to talk

Love Nat xx

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Lperica10 in reply toNatsteveo

Thank you.

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