having a hard time for some reason

[Bigtonyd]

Ex neice has come to stay shes 23 and the ex and the neice are sleeping in bed together all cuddled up im really struggling with the concept i have been kicked out of the room for her to move in, am i just silly or does any one else think this is wrong.

I told her its upsetting me but she dont care.

[Hidden]

Hi

I am a bit slow today , trying to understand this , so forgive me ....not sure who is cuddling who ?

Doesnt sound right that you should be asked to leave the room , but not sure of the whole situation

Love

whywhy

xxx

[Hidden]

I understand and sounds to me it is to annoy you and get your"back up"

Push you out? Feel like an outsider?Try not to let it bother you,they are being silly ,and as you say, strange.

[Bigtonyd]

Thank you Lindalou I think you have hit the nail on the head. Make it my fault that i leave the family home so the children dont blame her.

Just wish i could switch off my feelings, Just feel so useless and lonly.

I edited my first post.

[Hidden]

Its your home and your room. Re claim it and kick her out of it now. If they don't like it tell her tough s.... Remind her who pays the bills.

Bev x

[Kaz12345]

HI tony, you are most likely having a hard time because all this is very new and recent to you, you still have feelings for your ex and are still trying to process everything. I wasn't quite sure I understood things correctly either. are you saying ou have been pushed out of what used to be your bedroom? obviously not a good idea for you and your ex to be sleeping in the same room anyway, or do you mean another room ...

it will be hard but I would just try and ignore them. get on with saving etc and thinking about the life you are going to make for you and your kids.

[Bigtonyd]

Two weeks ago My ex ended the relationship told me i could not sleep in the bed any more a couple of days later shes says her niece is moving in and is now sleeping in the bedroom with my ex It all seems very planned too me.

While im at work they are up drinking all night long and staying in bed till late afternoon while our three children 10, 7 and 5 look after themselves. I dont have a bedroom of my own at the moment so im sleeping where ever is free. this means i am being woken by our children and getting very little sleep.

Im now having anxitey at work thinking about going home.