A big thank you...

I just want to say a big 'thank you' to everyone on here, esp whywhy.... I ve been struggling since last Sept (struggled on and off with anx n dep since 1996) but really struggling with it, to a point where I wana run off and leave my boyfriend cos I cant cope moving to another area, (ive always struggled with relationships since my abusive marriage)...My boyfriend is fab and gives me no reason to run off... but just cos I cant cope with relationships...

As I was saying, finding this site along with the help from all you on here, it has stopped me going down that slippery slope (im well aware I'll always be suseptible to this) but for now, Im doing ok and coping, down to all your help, and me not feeling like im a nutter....

So im here on my own (bf works away mon to fri)... big stress for me being on my own... but Im here cos I dont feel on my own, THANKS TO YOU ALL!!

And whywhy especially for giving me back hope that my son will someday return into my life.... I had lost it there for a while...

THANK YOU...

Much love xxxx

[ellabella]

I wish you the best of luck Anne and am so glad you have found friends on here to help you. It is a wonderful place to find and is very non judgemental You do deserve to be happy, everyone does. Whywhy is a really lovely lady and I'm sure she will be tickled pink with your comments Love and Hugs x Ella x

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To Whywhy,and you thought about leaving? And there you are ,much needed

[donaf]

wishing u lots of luck anne, and yes whywhy is very lovely xxx

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O stop it every one lol cant cope with people been nice to me ( a blushing face if i could do one & where is my Rose to show me how ???? )

Anne thats lovely to hear & thank you , even though I cant take compliments very well , are we all the same with that one ??? Please dont let it be just me !

Again though Anne I do relate to the relationship thing as well , I have always pushed people away & they have gone in the past , & had some rotton relationships as well so when I married hubby 20 years ago , was waiting for this to go wrong , waiting for him to do something , even looking for reasons to say he had done something , the reason why , is because I find it hard to love myself , so why would any body else love me ???? well they do by the looks of it

Always was judging him on past men in my life , why dont no , because he is him & nothing like the rest , I found a good one lol & sounds like you have to , because we are worth loving , grab it & enjoy it , have faith in him , he is not the past , he is your future , & sounding like the advert "your worth it " lol

Thrilled you are feeling more positive , thats great news please keep coming on , would miss you now if you didnt

And like I have said , leave that door open for your son , let him grow up a little more , tell him you love him everyday in your mind , keep up the Birthday cards & christmas ones , but dont expect a responce (or that hurts when you dont get one ) & he will realise one day

I thought my girls were never going to come back , 2 years was a long time felt like 20 !!! but I always used to say no matter what " i am their mum " and back they came because deep down I think they no that , now they are my best friends again !

Never give up hope when it comes to your son , but meanwhile while you are waiting , accept been loved , enjoy life , the rest will come when the time is right

Well gone on a bit here

Hugs

whywhy xxx

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I'm not going anywhere... I feel like I have a new family... my family are great by the way, but I dont really feel like they understand.... So my new family do!! :-))) xxxx

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Good

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They don't get it do they? I have a wonderful partner who's a pretty good listener for a bloke and I still don't feel like I can speak to him about 'this'. So glad this site seems to be helping you.