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Not depressed anymore, but sitting in a court waiting room for last two hours to try and get access to my 17 month old daughter.

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Could not have done this a few months back!

And guess what, my lovely X is using my mental health against me to prevent me seeing my beutifull little girl! Why do people have to lie? Hopefully the court will see through her, I have laid it bare to caffcass in the hope that truth will prevail, I am so so glad I do not get anxiety or panick attacks because this would tip me lol.

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Your mental health would be used in court to your advantage because any good judge will see how much of a strain not seeing your daughter would have on your mental well being. As long as there is no violence or anything that may upset your daughter, there will be no problems getting access to see your daughter. Good luck and i hope the judge will see through lies

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Aw bless ya! and I wish for you the very best!! Thinking of you and let us know how you get on. Keep Calm and carry on <3 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Court was adjourned as I suspected and although disapointed that it is not now until 1st march 2013 I am quite glad it went this way as at least it shows te court take the safty of my daughter seriously! Tey don't know me so I ageed to what caffcass advize and will be oen and honest about my mental health and rely on the truth rather than the fiction I was presented with from her legal aided solicitor. I was so gullible to have a child with my X after so short a time but I have a beutifull daughter that one day I may be able to see!!

Yes you will be able to see her again, the court will go into your medical records and providing there is no history of violence, and your mental health is getting affected by the absence of your daughter in your life, there should be no problem. Good luck x

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Glad that bit is over for you lovie, concentrate on getting well and happy. Little ones always bring a smile to my face : ) xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Thankyou all

You live and learn, was gullible and nieve to think that my X wanted to make a family with me but turns out she just wanted a baby!!! After getting to 41 with no children I made a decission that we got on and believed how she was with me things changed very quickly when she got pregnant, will find it hard to trust any future partner with my feelings now I suspect.

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