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I'm wondering just how much do people think about me. Do people really get locked in a "zone" that no one else can enter. Is their attention really so focused on what they're doing, when they're not talking to people that the dont notice that i'm even there. Do they care that i'm around or just care about what they're doing? I wanna know your responses down below please?

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Cavalierrubie

Hi, are you mixing with the right people? Sometimes people take it for granted that you are there and believe me, if you weren’t there, they would be mighty lonely and miss you. We only realise what we have when it’s gone. The world is on fast forwards, people rush and miss golden opportunities to be blessed by others. Eric, l believe we all have a special purpose in being here like part of a jigsaw. God has his quiet ones and you are exactly how he wants you to be. When we look back we can see how others needed us. You are not a mistake, you are very much needed, and there are the right people out there waiting for you and l hope you find them. Stay strong.

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Agora1

No longer wonder Eric, I know you are here in this community as well as the

many others who have responded to your posts. If only the outside world could

be as transparent as we are being virtual friends, you wouldn't have to wonder.

As Cavalierrubie stated, there is a reason you are here. Maybe you don't see it now

but someday you will look back and see that the others were not judging you. You

were judging yourself. I see a strong unrelenting young man who wants answers in

order to grow into what he was meant to be. :) xx

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Marysblue

Look up the 25% rule of people liking you. And they're not thinking about you they're thinking about themselves the majority of the time. Like I told you before. Quit worrying about what other people think. They don't like you move on. I know self-validation is hard.Look it up and read about it. Might help.

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