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Anxiety or from oral sex.

I had oral sex last agust 3 days later I had dry mouth then became coated tongue painfull gums and tongue and then red patches in gums appeared

She’d any light anyone ?

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Hello :-)

I have just been looking quickly at some of your previous posts because I wanted to make sure you actually did mean last August as now we are approaching nearly a year ago

I came across a picture where you are showing your tongue

It looks very much on that Picture that it is Thrush

I get Thrush a lot and you can get it in your Mouth

Several things can cause it even been stressed or run down , taking inhalers and so on

All you need is the right treatment which either a Doctor could prescribe or even a Chemist

Have it looked at if it is still the same and they will clear it up and you hopefully will stop worrying :-) x

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Comes back negative for thrush , had nyastatin , darkdan gel and fluconozol :( no change

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And yes since last august :( , I found others there not sure what it is either unless we have all gone barking mad xx

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It might just be the way your tongue is if they have tested you for all these things When you brush your teeth do you gently brush your tongue to ? as we should do as part of oral hygiene but sometimes we can forget

Maybe the Dentist can shed some light on it what it is as they are more up to date with oral issues than Doctors sometimes

I doubt very much if it is something serious after this length of time or you would have known about it but check in with your Dentist and if that does not work go back to the Doctors and ask again if it is not Thrush then what is it ?

Good Luck :-) x

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Due think it’s could be from the oral sex ? I was fine before ?

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Just feels very dry and sometimes hurts

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Doubtful after all this time it would have got worse and the Doctors would have picked up on it Try going to the Dentist it is surprising how there could be something you do not realise wrong with a tooth that can cause mouth issues x

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Due think it’s possible somthing from the sea got inside my gums I sound mad I kno 😂 I just keep racking my brains

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I’ve been to the dentist he didn’t kno

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Doubtful , like I said get your teeth checked and let the dentist have a look , the only way you might find out what is causing it x

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Have you seen others on here saying they have symptoms after oral sex ? Xx

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No and I think you are dwelling to much on that been the reason and need to again get your teeth checked and the dentist can check your oral hygiene at the same time x

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All been cheack and ses it’s looks healthy :)

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Do you smoke?

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Nope xx

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I found your picture in a pervious post you made. It's probably what's known as "Geographic" Tongue. Look it up. No danger with this. It just makes your tongue look patchy, white spots, etc. Your tongue also has a midline "fissure". Again, it's normal and nothing to worry about. Stress will definitely make your tongue look worse. Try to gently start scraping your tongue everyday with a tongue scraper or a toothbrush that have tongue grooves opposite side of the bristles. At first it might get worse, but then it will get better. Do it only once per day is my recommendation...not more than that to start out. Maybe rinse with a non-alcohol based mouthwash while doing it. By the way I am not a doctor, so this is not professional advice. It's just that I've seen this before. Most of all, stay very well hydrated and relax! Rapid weight loss and, especially, stress will impact your tongue and whole body in really weird ways! Relax, relax, relax. Good Luck!

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Thank you for your advice ? Where have you seen this before ? From someone who was stressed ?

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Person stressed, yes. Amount of acidity they intake: soda, liquor or acidic foods. All these affect the tongue. Temperature of beverages they drink such as hot coffee. Rapid weight loss can also affect the tongue. Acid Reflux (maybe from stress or spicy foods) can cause acid to creep up into the mouth and irritate the tongue...dry it out...etc. Smokers....drinkers...etc. A lot of times our minds will trick us into thinking it's something really bad, but it can be everyday habits. If you go to a dentist, they should help reassure you. They will probably tell you to scrape your tongue more and drink a lot of water, but maybe go see one and see what they say if you need more reassurance. Good luck!

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Nothing to do with oral sex ?

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