NERVOUS EXHAUSTION

[Drumset]

Please offer suggestions on how you have to not have contact with your own family members because they constantly cause you to have guilt + shame when I have been emotionally + mentally disabled because of it. It has ruined my life + the life of my wife. We have only a little time left with each other. Thank you

[Hidden]

Hello

No one should make you feel guilty , you have nothing to feel guilty about , take a step back from them and remember family or not they may have an opinion but that does not mean they are right and you don't have to listen to it

Why do you say you and your wife do not have much time left together ?

Take Care x

[Drumset in reply to Hidden]

What l meant is we are both in our senior years,so why should we waste another day in guilt heaped upon me by my immediate family,all of them are perfectionists,we are not, Thank you very much for your reply

[Hidden in reply to Drumset]

I see and you are so right , you have the answers why should you waste time you have together by family making you feel guilty

They may think they are perfectionists but no one is perfect and it must be hard work trying to be

You and your wife have something special and each other and that sounds about as perfect as it gets to me x

[Drumset in reply to Hidden]

Thank you so much for your input! Like they say, you can never please all the people all the time! Sadly,they will never understand why we are different, We are absolutely positive! People that use others are extremely difficult to get along with, We would rather be with friends that accept us for what we are, not for what we have or look like

[Drumset]

Thank you for your comment, everyone of my immediate family is a perfectionist, all but me+my wife,even my own mother, l might have a few good years left,and l don't want to waste 1 day

[PurpleRay60]

All the best Drumset, wishing you