Hi, I'm new here, and this is a question I ask, because when I am needed I feel worthy. I have an older brother who lives far away and we have skyped practically every day for quite along time. Just recently, he decides he doesn't want to skype me as much and I feel an uneasy sense of sadness. This happens to me in relationships too...It seems I only feel happiness and love when somebody needs me. I feel lonely and depressed! What is the answer?