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Im so so Worried.

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So, Im in a long distance relationship.

1 year and 4 months and there has not been anything bad going on a all!

I live in the US and my SO lives in the UK so there is a 6 hour time difference, I was telling him I wasn't looking forward to going to work today, and he was telling me to cheer up. He was being very nice! the last thing he sent me was a message like: "text me if you need anything ok?" and that he loved me very much, as usual.

I texted shortly after, with a picture that reminded me of him

he responded and then I responded but...

the message never sent.

I use KIK so if you're not familiar a D on KIK means the message has been delivered, a R means its been read, and a S means the person has logged out of KIK or their phone is off.

My message go stuck on S. Sometimes this happens so I thought, oh well he ran out of battery. it happens. this was around 10pm his time.

So I go to my 6 hour shift and at the end of it I was going to send him a goodnight text but when I look the message is still on "S"

I began to worry as this usually never happens, he knows I go to work and usually sends me a goodnight text before he goes to bed.

I go home at around midnight my time and 6am his time... I check my messages again... nothing. still "S"

I began to really worry. I have not slept all night. Its 5am and I have another 6 hour shift in 4 hours... Im panicking inside and crying just a bit.

I looked at my phone just now and its still on "s" its been 12 hours.

he really has never done this.

Im very very worried.

My anxiety is so high right now its ridiculous.

Anything will help please

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Hello

Take some deep breaths , this is anxiety going into overdrive here , I am sure there will be a simple explanation

Have you got him on Facebook , a home telephone number an email address maybe as if in a couple of days you do not hear from him then don't go all possessive on him but try and contact him some other way and calmly say I have been worried that you are ok but hopefully you won't have to because he will have been in contact :-)

Let us know what happens :-)

Take Care x

MariMari, Remember sometimes the phone towers just go out of wack and don't get good signals. Might be towers are out and you will hear from him shortly... Please don't worry! Sometimes we worry for something thats not what it is. :) Rest...

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