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I hate to have to be this guy, probably sounds like a bunch of crazy mumbling or something but i have no idea what to do, its been at least 4 years since whatever this is started and i cant make it stop. i guess it all started with a little depression after i finished school, my friends would still invite me out and i would almost always go out of my way to enjoy myself. At some point i stopped responding to them and did anything i could to not have to go outside, safe to say no one talks to me anymore whatever. Every single day i have uncontrollable shaking across my arms and my back, my heart beats so fast that it hurts my chest, my stomach moves like im trying to be sick over and over but i never actually throw up and i have lost consciousness whilst standing up many times. sometimes when i wake i have the feeling that my arms were moving but i haven't got a clue. after i wake up i am drenched in sweat and always need to pee. every night i cry until i am unconscious and can lay in bed for up to 18 hours at a time. I have had an MRI and x-rays before and the doctor is telling me that NOTHING IS WRONG ? This is so messed up and i'm tired of it. Hope i don't sound too crazy.. i don't even care if anyone reply's to be honest but its worth a shot.

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Goldfish_

It all sounds like psychological problems. I feel The way forward is probably to focus on mental health management.

Not an easy one.

Good luck

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robynnicholson

hi rin-54, have you seen a dr recently? sounds like anxiety and depression to me. Mental illness is a bugger. I havent slept through the night in 6 months. started taking anti depressants about a month ago and its slowly helping. Maybe you need a little help also :)

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begentle51

Hi ya

First of all, big hugs, for being brave and posting on here.

I've not had these feelings but I would head back to your Drs and seek their advise. It could just be an anxiety issue and they could point you in the right direction of a good therapist 💐

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Funkyfaerie

Hi,

I have had anxiety since I was 17, all sorts of random symptoms, list too long to mention, to give you an idea almost all of what is mentioned on this site, just sometimes one symptom will seem to overtake. At some points in my life I have felt fine, why?...I don't know that, but one thing and only with retrospect do I realise it, ....is that when I am distracted, I feel ok...because I am not focused on my heart / pain or whatever it may be. And that makes me think, yes it is me, because when I feel bad I seem to be thinking all day about my pain, I give it creedence and it gets worse, we need to stop thinking!

The point of my reply to you is, I am 60 years old now and realise it is me and how I am built and 90% of the time I deal with it. I live a good life, have children and granchildren and have done things that most people do...nothing like sky diving though :-)

I do not mean to make light of this at all, it is hard, but want you to know you will be alright! But please asthe others say, go to your Dr and get help, and don't be afraid to go back and back if you need to. We often feel a nuisance, but it is what they are there for. And of course this place is so helpful and the people on here keep you going.

Very best wishes and don't give up! x

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