Wanna be friends?

[Anxious-bunny21]

So my husbands cousin is totally amazing but I only see and speak with him at family gatherings every few months I would like to ask for his number and if it's ok to text him because I really wanna be his friend and talk and hang out with him more but I am painfully embarrassed to ask what should I do

[WAGS56]

Does your husband not have his number !!

[Anxious-bunny21 in reply to WAGS56]

He does but isn't it rude to just start texting him?

[valachia-t in reply to Anxious-bunny21]

Very rude and disrespectful to just start texting him.

[Agora1]

Hi Anxious-bunny21, personally, I think it might be asking for trouble. Family needs to be kept as family. Your decision....

[Anxious-bunny21 in reply to Agora1]

Thank you

[valachia-t in reply to Agora1]

I agree with you as always Agora1. You always have the right words, and know how to say them.

[whippedcream147]

The reason he appears so amazing is because you only see him every so often Lol being non judgmental about this but adding... Leave it alone it only leads to trouble. We have enough on our plate dealing with anxiety and other issues that we don't need anything to add to the pot. Be cordial when you see him and thank God he placed you around good inlaws. Hope I helped some😊

[valachia-t in reply to whippedcream147]

Agree totally.

[valachia-t]

Why you feel the need to be your husband's cousin friend ? Don't you have friends of your own. I feel that is disrespectful. How would you feel if the shoe was on the other foot ?

[valachia-t]

You should be embarrassed. That is weird. I am not judging, I am being honest. So keep it that way. Speak with him at family gatherings, before you create problems between the family, and your marriage.