Need a chat

[Joseph2001]

Need a chat get a few things off my chest 😢

[sunnyg]

IM me if you need to or chat here.

[Joseph2001 in reply to sunnyg]

thanks is now a good time?

[Hidden]

Here if you need to talk

[Joseph2001 in reply to Hidden]

talk now?

[Agora1]

Hi Joseph2001, well, I'll make that the 3rd person you can chat with. We're all here

to support you.

[Joseph2001 in reply to Agora1]

thanks how about now?

[Agora1 in reply to Joseph2001]

Now is good

[Joseph2001 in reply to Agora1]

Well the thing is my girlfriend just broke up with me and it seriously does hurt and I don't know what to do

[Agora1 in reply to Joseph2001]

Joseph2001, breaking up at any age is going to hurt, especially if the feelings on your part were sincere. What I'd like you to take away from this experience, is that it WASN'T about you. Whatever her reasons, don't let that reflect on how you feel about yourself. Unless 2 people meet in the center, their relationship will not thrive. One person can't be more involved than the other. As much as it hurts now, the heart does heal from this pain. Don't mope around, get back out in your circle of friends. There are a lot of young girls out there looking for a nice guy. Keep your options open in meeting others. Don't close the door because one relationship failed. You have a lot to look forward to in your future. Keep your anxiety at bay, think positive and get rid of any negative thoughts. Your princess is waiting out there. Take care, Joseph. Let us know how you do.

[Joseph2001 in reply to Agora1]

the reason she left me is because I'm joining the Royal Marines soon and she says that she didnt wanna go out with someone that is in the Military

[Agora1 in reply to Joseph2001]

Joseph, I commend you for what you are going to do. That's her loss. Follow your dreams.

[Joseph2001 in reply to Agora1]

yeah you're right, I dont need people like her in my life. I'm just scared of being alone, I mean without anyone to love

[sunnyg]

You're a hero and if she can't see that and love you because your chose this noble profession then you are lucky she left. Your future is so bright and beautiful. Look in that direction.