My weekend...

Hello everyone

Thought I would write a little post about the latest mishaps going on.

Friday I went to a friends doo and my ex was there also. I did well and didn't run away I stayed and tried to have as best a night a possible which I was until I saw my ex with the girl they cheated on me with a few months ago(I forgive my ex) but that really wound me up but I stayed anyway, then I went home and next day I saw the club pictures uploaded to Facebook which had my ex and this girl in a very suggestive pose so my anxiety shot through the roof.

Today I went to my exes house to get the rest of my stuff, couldn't even be there to be amicable so I just got my stuff and posted the keys through the door.

I suppose now I have closure(sort of)and it's time to move on.

So yes an eventful weekend.

X

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At least you know it's time to move on which is positive. Good luck

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Yeah we have broke up a million times but this time I need to close the door and see what other doors are ou there. Can spend my life chasing my tail for someone who only wants me when it suits them x

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Oh this doesnt sound like the best weekend

It does show this person isnt worth a you no what

It might have helped as surly you wouldnt want someone like this in your life again , i no its painful , but they may have done you a favour to help you let go & move on

Love

whywhy

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Yeah whywhy I do think so..if my ex cared at all then they would have showed some decorum which I wasn't granted. So I see where I come now in their eyes lol

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Hey Ashley you did really well staying under those circumstances, he doesn't sound particularly tactful or sensitive to anyone's feelings, thinking you are much better off without him, though that probably doesn't make it any easier for you, hoping this is closure for you too

Mimii xx

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Thanks mimii.

Yeah I'm hoping maybe this will start to help my anxiety get better..and if it does then it's been worth it.

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Wow what a weekend, well done to you for staying put, i think anxiety alone would be enough to cope with nevermind a ex,s public display of "rub it in your face". more so if he cheated on you with her. As for not even being there when you went to pick up your things well that to me says coward. You are so much better off without negative influences like that in your life. I think you will feel so much better without him as you will not have to be constantly worried about what he is doing. Leopards don't change. xxx Donver

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Hi Donver

I think you are completely spot on. While I didn't expect the ex to be there I sort of though they would be. I'd have liked to have been able to say bye. Think we owed each that after knowing each other for 8 years. But it wasn't meant to be.

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I can understand you wanting to say bye, but then why give him the satisfaction he clearly did not think 8 years was worth him being a man and not rubbing her in your face. Stand tall and don't look back. He made his bed let him lie in it. These things happen for reasons and if he had of been there ask yourself would you not have forgiven him again? xx

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Yeah that makes sense, I probably would have been more hurt and in a state. So it's best I was able to get me things and go.

I guess I just have more loyalty and love for them than they do me.

Xx

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Its never a good time when things go bad for 2 people, but we have to accept that they have gone wrong for a reason, and the reason wasn't you. You know that when the time is right to move on that you can bring love and loyalty to a relationship and these are some cracking qualities x

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Hi Ashley sorry for the late comment no getting on here much at the moment. This weekend has shown you though that you have made the right choice. Now it's time to move forward and be happy because you deserve to be. At least you got one thing to look forward to haha x