relationship issues

[Wildflower_80]

I know this is going to sound crazy probably, but me and my partner have been together for two years now..he’s cheated on me three times..and I don’t want to leave because I love him and I know he loves me..I always bring up problems all the time and it kind of shuts him down.. and he’s in college right now and I miss him so much..and he says he misses me but sometimes I feel like he doesn’t…and he’s treats me differently from his friends and he says it’s because I always talk abt problems in the end and he isn’t wrong but I don’t know what to do..I don’t want to leave I really truly dont..I love him and I wanna give him a chance..

[Agora1]

Wildflower_80, I think you've already given him 3 chances. It sounds like

he isn't quite ready to commit right now. It sounds like you are both in

a different position in life. College is a learning experience as well as a

time for someone to grow emotionally . You're both young. Give it some

time to see where this goes. It may not be what you are looking for or need.

Love is a powerful emotion with the right two people. Be patient dear xx

[Downandout123]

He's already proved 3 times that he's not able right now to be faithful. It's going to keep happening. Do yourself a favor and get out of the relationship. You're so young yet and will have many opportunities with men who treat you with respect and are willing and able to commit. Don't keep letting him repeat this behavior, because he WILL.

[Lifesearching]

Hi sweetie, my youngest brother is 18. I’m in my thirties and been cheated on many times in my past. First of all you are so incredibly young! I’m so sorry you have to experience this type of pain🥺I know you probably love him very much. Love we feel for men who wrong us can make it very difficult to let go. U would not believe this, but love can even blind us from the truth! Crazy right? He is very fortunate to have you. Once I guy showed me he was unfaithful in my face, and I snapped out of it and left bcuz of my mom! I never went back even if it hurt so much(I was about 24). If he is in college, he may take advantage of such a young woman by doing this.

Know that you have so much time to live your life, I would kill to be 18 again! It’s up to you because it’s your life, but I would try to let him go if you can do this. Let him go hunny! By walking away you show him your worth, and believe me he is not the only man out there💙there are good men out there who will do right by you who are also cute! Don’t you worry

[Wildflower_80]

and me and him talk and he has shown that he is changing but I’m just scared..

[Xene]

They do say “Love is Blind” good luck, sounds like you’re going to need it.🤷‍♀️