Hey my people here is a thought

[Amysmom]

So with depression and anxiety I know how everyone feels. Yrs ago after my husband went through chemo and radiation for lung cancer 3b and all treatments were over I could finally sit down and then well hell i fell apart. I am good in an emergency but afterwards well lets just say I am a basket case lol. Anyway thinking life was just to much i contemplated suicide and that scared the crap out of me. So i decided yep time to see a therapist. Now after finally getting over the fact that i had to spill the beans about everything in my life which was scary I did it anyway. As i am yapping away week after week my therapist said something to me that woke me up. She said why do you let people treat you badly and why do you allow it. So there i sat thinking damn she is right I allow this i let people make me feel bad if I don't do what they ask or want. So if anyone out there is making you feel bad about yourself or your having doubts about anything. Just remember we do not have to allow anyone to treat us like crap. If we say no its no its time we all just take care of ourselves cause if we don't no one else will. Just thought i would throw this out there if it helps someone great and the very least its something to think about. 🙂

[BlueAgave]

I have a big problem with this. Thanks for your post.

[Amysmom in reply to BlueAgave]

How so?

[AsoingerbobTheGreat]

Amysmom, this post you made is a good word to put in for all of us suffering from opposition. You're a kind soul who thinks of others. ❤️

[Amysmom in reply to AsoingerbobTheGreat]

Thank you

[AsoingerbobTheGreat in reply to Amysmom]

You're very welcome! 👍🏼

[AsoingerbobTheGreat]

Whoa whoa whoa, I didn't mean it in a bad way. Holy, I did not mean to sound angry.. 😭 I meant my comment in a good light, I guess I chose the wrong words

[AsoingerbobTheGreat]

Here, I'll fix it.

[Wildchipmunk]

I'm so glad you are seeing a therapistThey're good at thinking clearly when one is bogged down with emotions. Thank you for sharing with us. You sound like such a nice person.

[Amysmom]

I just love your screen name made me smile lol