Bad Question... Maybe...

[Japan2015]

Hypersexuality?

I'm nearly 41 years old. And I've already known I've liked sex more than the average person because of either just me being me or the things I did happen to me was younger. All I know is statistically and personally I do like statistics. Lol is that I'm highly above the average and general masturbation.

Even at 40 years old and to be honest and open. I am single alone and I know that plays a high factor in myself. But has my sexual drive gone down since I become almost 41 years old yes. And that I mean I don't masturbate as 40 times a week instead about 30 to 20 times a week. I've learned to control and curve the dad's hunger.

And I've learned over the years that my hypersexuality has to do with what happened to me when I was a child and that touch equals to affection, which sadly means to me. Love.

No, I do have stories about my 9-month curse with spouses but that comes later.

Now is the stupid question but honest question is it wrong or am I just that jacked up that it's how I am?

[MadBunny]

May I suggest you discuss your issues on the men's health forum, which might be more suitable for you and more specific to your needs. Here is the link :

healthunlocked.com/menshealth

Best wishes

[hypercat54 in reply to MadBunny]

Yes I agree. This isn't really appropriate on a mixed site like this. As well as that you are much more likely to find like minded souls on there.

[Japan2015 in reply to hypercat54]

Again, I sincerely apologize I did not want to trigger or cause any issues here.This was a mistake. It won't happen again and I appreciate truly and wholeheartedly for everyone's replies.

If I did cause unintentionally triggers I am so sorry. Truly and departedly I am so so sorry. It was not my purpose or my cause. I am so sorry.

[hypercat54 in reply to Japan2015]

No worries Japan. There is no need to apologise but its very thoughtful of you.

Thank you.

[Japan2015 in reply to MadBunny]

Thank you

[Japan2015 in reply to Japan2015]

And sorry if I was again inappropriate. I felt like it was related to my own issues with dealing with anxiety and depression. But thank you and that's most important for your help. That really does help me.

[Dolphin14]

Japan

These are questions probably better suited for your therapist.

May I ask that you attach a trigger warning to your title. This topic could trigger members

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[Japan2015 in reply to Dolphin14]

Who wish I had the money for those people.

[Japan2015 in reply to Dolphin14]

The trigger members I didn't know about. Thank you

[Dolphin14 in reply to Japan2015]

It's ok

We just need to be mindful that others who have been abused may not be able to speak about it or would appreciate the warning so they can scroll by.

I'm sorry you don't have a therapist. You are right this all stems from your traumas.

Im so sorry you experiences this

[Japan2015]

I want that again say for anybody who may read these posts above and below. If I have unintentionally triggered you for your own past traumas, I am sincerely and wholeheartedly. Again sorry. Share with me and I'll give you my honest as well as you give me your thoughts.

If you did read above post and it did trigger something. Again, I apologize. However, I am thankful you didn't read it because it shows the kind of-hearted person you are and kindred person to read and understand.

[fauxartist]

I personally see nothing wrong with healthy sex...it's actually good for you to get those endorphins goin.... but there is also an unhealthy sex as well, sex addiction is very unhealthy. So if you have a more than average libido...so what.... and yes.... hypersexuality can be a side effect from being molested as a kid. Some people who have been abused as kids abstain from sex, and become isolated all together around having sex, and others are overly sexual.

I think working with a therapist and defining healthy sex would be your best bet.