Need different perspective

[Skyfit]

my wife insulted me and my parents and left with my kid now she is saying live with me I have your baby…..but at the same time my parents needs me the most….my wife who insulted me treated me like shit emotionally tortured me wants me to stay with her and my parents also saying if everything going to be ok go live with her for the sake of the kid….. but the things happened in the past I can’t forgive her for what she said and did and don’t want to leave my parents too…..at the same time I want to be with my child idk what should I do

[confusedexpat]

Hi!

I don't have an answer for that, I'm in a similar situation where I need to find out what I need to be happy and if being with my kid would be enough to be happy. I know in theory that's all we need but I've come to realize that it is not entirely true, we need to feel loved, respected and appreciated, and if you get back and none of that changes I think that both you and your kid might end up having a terrible time...

Best thing you can do is try, but, before that open up with your wife, but I mean really talk, without screaming, and listen as well her perspective. There might be a chance that you can learn from her what she needs from you and you learn from her as well, that is, if you still think you could work it out with her...