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Ah sis is sick and mom's drunk and i went to the kitchen for a min and i think they got in a fight. Sis asked for a charger and mom was knocked down and i asked if they got in a fight or something and they both just got mad and didn't tell me. Sis just said "she's just stupid stubborn". Sis is sick and mom's so insensitive and drunk. And I'm just anxious and they're both mad at me for it. I need to know what happened. Dad leaving ruined everything - sis alone, me obsessed and anxious, mom - drunk barbarian.

She has that moment when she's drunk and before falling asleep. And i need to know what is going on because i get anxious

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Don't worry so much Against the current. Just be glad that it didn't involve you for once because you're the one that your mother goes after most of the time. You're her target especially when she's drinking. It was the same way for my mother and I. As I told you before she verbally psychologically and emotionally abused me as a teenager and it caused me self-esteem issues and also self-loathing problems too. It seems your sister has a pretty good handle on things so don't worry so much about her I think she has got it down now how to navigate dealing with your mom. Yes it definitely seems that your father doesn't seem to care what goes on so don't waste any time on him either just do you you know what I'm saying.

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Against_the_current in reply toCookie2217

You know what's going on. It's painful that dad doesn't care. Maybe it's best to not bother with him. And i feel better hearing sis handles it. You've been abused by a drunk mom too? So I'm not alone?

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Cookie2217 in reply toAgainst_the_current

That's right. I've been abused by my mother who was an alcoholic who verbally emotionally and psychologically abused me. My dad also did nothing about it and just let her do it with no consequences whatsoever. He had me deal with it all on my own. My father failed to protect me from my mom's wrath. I wasn't really close to my father my sister was. I was close to my mom before she became a drunk all the time. This made us clash a lot my mom and I.

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Against_the_current in reply toCookie2217

I'm sorry. Something similar here. He just left and doesn't care she's making me go crazy with constant abuse. I was close with him before he ruined me in 2020 and now my sister is close to him and he's leaving the city

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Cookie2217

Stay away from your father and your mother both they're not good for you at all. You and your sister should leave that house and go on your own. That's what you need to do to keep your sanity because if you live with her she's going to abuse you just so you understand. If you stay there your mother will verbally abuse you you are her Target. Stay away. Sending thoughts and prayers to you.

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