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Dad was leaving and i prayed for an angel. I got this message on WhatsApp from a woman called Angela saying she knows my mom's drinking and I'm always panicking. I told her i don't have money and to not take advantage of my pain and she said she won't and said 3 temples and dad will stay and mom will stop drinking. I was really upset so i trusted her. Today i hot upset at myself for doing so. Then she said she doesn't have enough money for the final temple. Mom was giving me chores, i was texting with her. The woman stopped getting my messages delivered and i was so upset i just went to sleep. I decided to give her some time. But im worried she went back to Los Angeles and left Atlanta and the ritual is unfinished and i paid for nothing or for bad luck. I fell asleep because this whole spiritual stuff was too much. The psychic wanted money to visit 3 temples and said dad won't move out and mom won't drink. I gave them while i was under the affect. Then she said she needs money for the third temple and i got mad. My messages started to not deliver and i fell asleep. I woke up, mom drunk and being mean to sis, and still not delivering. I wonder if it got worse because of not visiting or if she cursed me. In Bulgaria, it's a solid amount. Yesterday i was praying for an angel or something to happen and she appeared, called Angela, told me this amount and she will visit 3 temples and dad will stay and mom will stop drinking. But then said the money aren't enough and dissapeared. I fell asleep and woke up by mom being drunk. How can dad leave us to this creature? And how could this woman appear just to finish me off? She knew i had a problem with mom drinking and that's why i trusted her. I told her i can't pay, she was like don't worry and bam. I wonder if not finishing the visit at the temples made it worse and if i paid to be cursed or it has zero impact or it was just visiting good temples and can't harm me or if she got mad and cursed me. I'm usually not so superstitious but I'm just really stressed with mom drinking

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gajh

Do not trust people like that! No psychic is going to help you. She did not put a curse on you. She did steal your money. Spend your money on a therapist who can help you not on someone who is just taking advantage of you. Please stay away from the so called psychics from now on. They are only there to hurt you and cause you more pain. Please find a therapist.

I liked MaggieSylvie's suggestion in your other post, of moving near your Dad and away from your Mother. Get a fresh start. It would be nice if you were near enough to still visit your Dad.

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Turnipgirl in reply togajh

I take these supposed psychics online with a grain of salt!

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Against_the_current in reply togajh

I don't think it's possible

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Piao in reply togajh

Lots of people are telling you there are no psychics and no curses. I know people from your side of the world and I know this is a big tradition in Bulgaria - so I am going to tell you this in your mind-language (ie not Bulgarian, but talking about psychics).

The real psychics I know do not ask for money - they ask for a donation, and even a bag of apples would be enough. The fact that this lady asked for money, is suspicious. And she did not give you time to think about it or to find the money - she just disappeared. It is like she took what she could and ran off before you could tie her down with the rest of the money. Curses made on children or on vulnerable people are not allowed (by the Universe) and the go back to the sender - if she is capable of making a curse she would know this and she would be scared - but I doubt she can or will put a curse on you.

I agree with the others who tell you to seek a therapist - someone who can help you find your own resources to face the problems with your mum and help your sister. It won't be a quick or easy solution but it will make you stronger and help you in the future. Yes, keep praying to your Guardian Angel to help you, and ask your Guardian Angel to ask your mum and your sister's Guardian Angels to take care of them, and to your dad's Guardian Angel to help dad keep helping you. Faith and prayer are stronger than curses.

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Against_the_current in reply toPiao

Thank you so much. I really needed to hear that. She came back to ask for money and i was trying to tell her i don't want further business but she only got mad. I delieted WhatsApp and ran

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Piao in reply toAgainst_the_current

People like that only serve to give a bad name to the good psychics. You did well to delete her. We do not and should not have any power to control the free will of others. If you want to convince your dad to return, he must do so of his own free will not because of psychic influence. If you speak to a therapist, get them to help you how to deal with your mum and dad in a gentle, loving way. Love always helps.

in reply toAgainst_the_current

The fact that she got mad suggests that she was in it for the money and was angry that you would not give it to her.

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Midori in reply toPiao

Absolutely right, Paio.

Cheers, Midori

in reply togajh

I agree completely.

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CLB1125

why do you keep wasting your money on these scammers?? If you posted anything about yourself on the app she probably saw it and that’s why she knew your problems. She stopped receiving your messages when the money ran out. There are only a minute amount of people gifted with ability to see into another’s mind. And they wouldn’t squander that precious gift on social media for money. These people you pay are scammers preying on innocent souls like yourself searching for answers. Don’t let people like that take your money.

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Turnipgirl in reply toCLB1125

When these scammers who claim that if I pay them things will be good come up with me I don't pay them and think get lost!

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Against_the_current in reply toTurnipgirl

I'm really scared if she curses me

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Midori in reply toAgainst_the_current

Won't happen. Don't worry your head about it. Just keep away from app psychics, shamans, witches and such, who say they can do these things. They only want your money and they know how to access your information. Don't go there.

Cheers, Midori

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Against_the_current in reply toCLB1125

I feel so bad after she did the first part of the ritual. I can't eat and i just panic and sleep. She said she needs to finish the ritual

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Desperate4Happiness in reply toAgainst_the_current

There is no ritual. She's just taking the money that you and others give her. None of the of the psychics are real. Block her number and stop believing she can solve your problems. Spend your money on therapy and meds instead.

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Against_the_current in reply toDesperate4Happiness

Thank you. I delieted WhatsApp and im scared she might curse me. I told her milion times i have to spend my money on therapy and meds

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Turnipgirl in reply toDesperate4Happiness

It's a load of crud isn't it?

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Against_the_current in reply toTurnipgirl

Yes. I prayed for an angel and got her instead

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Alpakka123 in reply toAgainst_the_current

AtC,I can guarantee you that she did nothing and is only saying she did something to appease you.

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MaggieSylvie in reply toAgainst_the_current

It's just the aura of these evil people that makes you ill. It will wear off and you must seek another way of solving your problems. There is always a way; you just have to find it and accept it, even if it is outside your comfort zone.

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Midori in reply toAgainst_the_current

Of course she does; it's designed to keep you paying; there will always be another ritual, and another problem she can 'Help' you with.

Please don't trust them.

Cheers, Midori

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Against_the_current in reply toCLB1125

Thank you. I'm really scared if she curses me

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Midori in reply toAgainst_the_current

A 'curse' can only work if you believe it! You have done the right thing by removing yourself from her, so now do not think of it. She can do nothing to you.

Cheers, Midori

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CLB1125

it’s a hoax! She just wants your money

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Against_the_current in reply toCLB1125

Thank you. I delieted WhatsApp and im scared she might curse me

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Turnipgirl in reply toAgainst_the_current

No they won't that's a load of rubbish!

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Against_the_current in reply toTurnipgirl

Because it would cost a fortune to get the curse up

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CLB1125 in reply toAgainst_the_current

there aren't any curses. you will fine.

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Against_the_current in reply toCLB1125

She knew mom's drinking and appeared just when i found out dad's leaving

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Irishisme

There are no curses. Your brain has found something to get anxious about as brains do but you can shut it down with facts. Fact is there aren’t 3 temples. Fact is these types of people have no conscience and prey on vulnerable people. Fact is she has moved on to find another poor soul who has money 🍀

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Against_the_current in reply toIrishisme

She knew mom's drinking and appeared just when i found out dad's leaving. But woah thank you. This is helpful. Fact is she was nervous all the time. Fact is she lied about the price and where the money were going. Firstable she needed 300 for "transportation" and then sent me a link to buy giftcards as "offerrings"

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Midori in reply toAgainst_the_current

That is the typical way they operate, the giftcards. Delete the gift cards app too!

Cheers, Midori

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Against_the_current in reply toMidori

Oh wow. Didn't know this as they're American. Thanks for exposing them so i no longer fall when im desperate

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Cookie2217

Hi there. Please do not think that you will be cursed it isn't true. It's a lie. That woman preyed upon you because she knew she could probably scam you because you are vulnerable at this time. Save up your money, get a therapist and then move out your mom's house. I lived with a alcoholic mother who emotionally, psychologically and verbally abused me for years because she was a mean and nasty drunk. She turned into a different person when her drank and would call me names for no reason. I've been there myself dealing with a parent, my mother who's incompasitated and having the other parent my father do nothing to help you. It's awful. Pray to God Himself and your guardian angel and mother Mary to intercede on your behalf. Prayers are answered in one way or another. Remember you are not cursed ok. Take care of yourself and go see a therapist. Best wishes to you and hoping for health, happiness, peace and well-being to be yours.

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Against_the_current in reply toCookie2217

Thank you. I was just praying for an angel and she appeared called Angela and i got confused. I feel bad i gave those money i could have used for therapy

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Cookie2217 in reply toAgainst_the_current

Well now you know for the next time right? Don't be fooled by these people. They take advantage of you whenever you are vulnerable. Do.you know what I mean? What's happening with your plans for moving? Is your father going to step up like he should to protect both you and your younger sister especially if your mother is drinking so much and she gets very verbally abusive towards you. It seems like you are your mother's target and who she goes after especially when she's drinking . I know I was the target for my own mother and it was horrible going through that so I know exactly how you feel. Wishing you the best outcome possible for you and for your sister keep us posted okay.

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Against_the_current in reply toCookie2217

He will do nothing. I tried telling him sis depends on him, i tried telling him we have nobody and mom's drinking but nothing. We're left alone. My sister is waiting to turn 18 and flee if she finds a job. I don't know what i will be doing since im mentally and physically ill and when she's sober she makes me absolutely codependent on her. It's like im her wife. She gives me chores then comes home with food

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Cookie2217 in reply toAgainst_the_current

Being in a codependent relationship is completely unhealthy and you need to get out now. I'm just going to be totally blunt here and please do not take offense to it because I'm just trying to be plain and honest with you so you stop doing what you're doing. Your mother does nothing for you except verbally, psychologically and emotionally abuse you because she is an alcoholic. My mom did the same exact thing to me so I know exactly what you're going through except I got out but it did score me as far as self-esteem We also had self-loathing issues because of this Into my adulthood until just recently. Your father needs to step up to the plate and be a father and take you and your sister away from your mother period. If he does not do this then you need to get out from underneath your mother on your own all on your own and you can do it I know you can with a little help and advice you said you're in college stay there and don't go home by all means do not go home to be with her don't let her make you feel guilty because you're not there you're not supposed to be you're supposed to be living your own life being happy and stress-free and she's doing nothing for you except destroying you. I neglected to ask you what your age is are you over the age of 17? If you are you are free to go I think even at 16 you are free to leave your residence without parental input please do this for yourself you deserve more you deserve better you're worth it and you have a lot to give to the world so please do not let your mother ruin your life. And your father needs to help you out because if he doesn't he's turning a blind eye to his daughter who needs help which is exactly what my father did to me. That's why I rebelled against the two of them and did my own thing when I was 18 to 21. I was so damaged by being physically abused by my dad and verbally emotionally and psychologically abused by my mother that I tried to kill myself three times between the ages of 18 to 21. The Lord himself saved me the third time because I wound up in ICU for a day and a half and they also had to pump my stomach and I have no recollection of any of it. I think God save me from that pain and I also believe that I'm here for a reason and that is to share my story with others in the hope that what I say to them resonates and helps them. I was also sexually assaulted when I was 19 so I've been abused every which way to Sunday so please heed my warning get away from your mother it's the only way you're going to get out from underneath her thumb. Another reason to do this is your sister needs you so you need to be strong and fierce like I know you can be and set out on your own even whether or not your father helps you do it for yourself first cuz you always have to look out for number one which is yourself and do it for your sister's second because she needs you. It makes me very sad that you are in this situation and I wish that I could give you a huge hug and tell you everything was going to be okay please reach out to me and let me know how you are doing as I am very interested to find out how you did doing the right thing for yourself and leaving that home behind. Please take care of yourself and I am wishing you peace, love and well-being. Hang in there it's going to be okay. If I can do it anybody can do it and you can do it.

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secrets22

this so called psychic is a fraud and a charlatan, please ignore her. I used to be taken in by these people and did get caught until i came to my senses, they prey on our insecurities. I do believe there are people who are gifted but they are very few, and you need to be face to face and not online for no way on earth can anyone know you when they are hundreds or thousands of miles away. Take no notice and dismiss anything she said.

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Turnipgirl in reply tosecrets22

I take what they say with a grain of salt and treat them as a bit of fun!

How are you and the dogs doing?

Here it's been an early start at 6.30am getting job applications done and out of the way and an early journey into the city centre as its an interview at legal and general at 9.50am so I am in town nice and early so can walk down shortly to the offices!

I decided to get job applications done early and then I can go out as I wish after they are done!

Baby is great and still getting spoilt!

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secrets22 in reply toTurnipgirl

We're doing ok thank you, and so glad Baby is still doing well at her Grand age. What would we do without our 4 legged family.

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Turnipgirl in reply tosecrets22

I did my interview at the new legal and general building today as planned and there was a group exercise and the interviews with the managers and I walked away from there feeling I had given it my very best which is all I can do really!

If I don't get in I won't be heartbroken over it though!

One lady had thought that the new building was by British Gas s new pad in callaghan square but no it isn't it's next to the new bus station and I said how I had come for a walk last Friday to have a nosy to see where the place was to be ready for interview today!

The interview finished at 12noon and myself and my sister in law decided on an afternoon visit to Penarth and a picnic on the pier which we both enjoyed and a walk along the front and in the town centre and to the Windsor gardens and some ice cream as well!

She told me she is proud of me for having gone to that assessment centre this morning and then deciding to go to Penarth this afternoon which I enjoyed but it was busy though so we won't be doing the planned visit on Wednesday and go swimming instead that day as originally it was going to be swimming this afternoon but we changed it round to do Penarth this afternoon instead as we were already in the city so on Wednesday we don't have to go into the city again!

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secrets22 in reply toTurnipgirl

I love Penarth although its many years since I've been there.

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Turnipgirl in reply tosecrets22

It's a similar sort of town to Clevedon isn't it?

I did my early 9am interview this morning on video and felt like I had done my best and then decided to come to swimming at 12noon so had an early lunch of leftover pasta from last night's dinner and the phone went and it was a place trying to put me on the spot and I cut them off and said I had to end the call as I had another appointment at 12 and hung the call up and came over to swimming for 12 anyway!

It's a bloody cheek isn't it ringing without an appointment!

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Against_the_current in reply tosecrets22

Thank you

Thank you so much everyone

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worthytobeloved

Hello, my love. There's not much I can add to the kind and helpful posts you've had in reply to yours. Firstly, if someone tells you you're cursed, don't believe them. Who are they anyway; just really nasty, unkind people. You asked for an angel - and you have all the angels in heaven but, most importantly, God. You are his precious child, and He knows everything you're going through. Life is hard and painful for everyone at times, but eventually out of darkness comes light. I read all your posts, and I see how much you allow other people and circumstances affect you. Try not to let your mum's drinking upset you - that's her problem, not yours. If you are able, see if you can help her. Pretend you are the adult and she is your child going through a bad time.

Regarding your father leaving, he'll still be there for you - just further away. You never know, things may turn out well from all this.

Try not to rely on other people - YOU are the most important person in your life. Definitely get therapy if you can, but also find kind people who will listen to you. Just get support. Are there any religious institutions that might give free counselling? You don't have to be religious youself for them to want to help you. How about your grandparents - could you talk to them?

And don't beat yourself up by believing 'Angela'. We all make mistakes, and always will.

Remember, you are not alone in this - you have so many virtual friends on HealthUnlocked who care for you. xxx

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Against_the_current in reply toworthytobeloved

Thank you and all the amazing people here who handled it with compassion instead of making me hate myself. My mom's mom is on her side and getting too old, my dad's parents are on dad's side and getting too old. I still talk to them all and ask for emotional and financial help but they don't understand and they're getting older

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