It broke me. We were in the sea, i was holding her hand telling her to not be afraid. Mom sitting on the shore cause she's scared of waves. Sis said she's usually not afraid but now it feels scary. I told her i'm there but she said she's looking after me not me after her. "Wish i could get in the water but mom's afraid and you can't be trusted. Wish dad was here."and "the pool is boring and cold and we have it at home city" and "look at this wave, dad would dive". She was even telling me of his place where i don't dare to go.
Its ehartbreaking.
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very sensitve anials feel and think everehn and get overhwlemed.
just the way it is
they need the right p;epole
the right envorments
rightly so
or do u thnk hummingbirds shuldbe like air craft carrers lek most pep;le??
bet ud say p;rotedt and cherish the humnin bird too
yep; A+++++
in reply to
he firsr step in horsemanship is to accep;t that horse for who they are.......fnd what reasonale along their journy and never scare them never ovewhelm them or p;unish...
they can go past ur initial expecations but those are just guidelines ur not sayhing this horse will never...
ur sahying right now
this horse dog student
isnt ready for finals but needs and derserve long slow traning and expoure....others ready for xyx
so what
we dont compare
we only do what right for rhe horse sutden
the probme is geeting that across to them or paren5
withou offending them
oh so u thik im a beingner
oh so u thik im over ssenitive
wasnt saying that
why horses are easier than peop;le
i do what best for my horse....period....
i have taken lots out ...toop of hill...graze for an hour
i look at St Judes for my inspiration...(hosp and what those kids and familes go through...do whateer helps....yep totaly unjust totally wrong sad whatver...
have to get healthy to be three for others.....someday ur turn
Sis said "i go to the bathroom and to prepare mentally for going out", mom said "i'm not eager to go, you want and now PrEpaRe mENtaLLy" and sis said "i didn't even want to be here. You two are always murmuring.".."You two" 💔It's always "You too" How dad speak to us and them, how sis speak about us, how mom speak about us
so u p;ut thoroughbreds in v quiet envroents wth friends'
and
cold blooded could give a hoot
ya so what.....so the Tb needs a freind or a bunny or the right envornent
granded.....not monster....violin....we have to fig what works for us...i was a caretaker and agree with the cliet model...i went to movies shop with people bult bird houses.....who doesnt need companionship...who doesnt need somoene ...eveuoen does...we are socall cratures.....saying nothign u dont know.....ur in a sh88ty palce aane endrionmnet ....
not easy but we have to be our own best coach bes5 advoate... even if we dont want to...no bearing to u....we have to....who else can.......no one can study for me find a job develop skills that will get me a job etc....easy for me to say....my father was an alcoholic....one quart every night..disowned me kicked me out punched me ....my older sister calls me a coward for divoring my abusive wife same with my moter....we all know shity parents or family problems.....we can relate....not lectruing u ...not not not.......somehow....we have to take he lemons we suck daliy and my UR lemondae...where to find the sugar..........easy for me to say
i have to find what works for me
we all borrow clues hear and there from each other
i was a wrck when i came here......many mnay came to my aid
ane i read what they post and fact that they can say ...hey martha....im havng a lousy day
tells me hugely ...this is safe place
or hey im feeling better george.....
tells me ...about this place
there are plenty where its not safe to open up or talk or whatver
and even marines.........man they sleep back to back ...they need safe...too...
im frustrated as our horses and animals are animalsto people
blows my mind
we have our animla brain in there
thats where emotions and fears come from
somehow ntleuctuals think humans are so diff
bull.....
horses dogs people......unniversals......
people here are all humble and whats good for their dog is good for them....they have shed the humna has hyper inteleigence bs i get wi5h acadmic people
u should see them panic too
what hypocracy....
do what u think is situationally right
always people will second guess just lok at sports...omg endless experts in the bleachers.....
best wishes...evryone here cares.......knw ur trying know he deph of dispare and hopelessness....digginng out of notint etc...
get it.....hear it whatever words help...bloody hard work some days to keep gong ..yep......world life famlly suck many times ..all true...drwa yoursel a daisy and haoppy face thatloveds ya...the ten
everyone pulling for u
amazing how u take stressed out food junkies an
go walking or out nth e woods
apetie goes awya
whod thought5
no food stimulus
no commerials
les stress
wow miracle....
and people journal agou5 5heir stess and
and food suffing an
lets go bird watcihng
poof....
moronic counsleor an mental healt5h system
telling us ould country folk
known sinee dawn of time...
u no diff than 999 erent of humanity....
go find a park get away from the stressors
take our horses fro a walk
no offense ...........lets make the humming bird tough
Okay so just overreacting, everything is okay, everything is okay
purple u dam saint u r....!!!!!! sorry my emotons a bit raw.....u go girl!!!!
purple uuuuu my heroQQQQQQ
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aplogies purple....u rock dude!!!!! my deepest apolgies...
U....rock!!!
no man...happy to have flight leader.......i stink at this and dont lke it but .....
no man......been in medcine too long....dont know what i do...
thankful ur there....
god bless ya ur more lke dr freedman in mash than most
bleh tohers....u go for it....im not good at this just hard to abondon peopole....vvvthankufil yall are here....wayy out of my league
loong story from vet med sooo many severe cases...dont want the responsiblity ...30 percent revoery rates....horses die lik flies and foals....no thanks....
all urs......or slam this person with 4 bottles of testoerone....
no....what the world thinks is 911 after all wevesen u prob to is barel a 111...so im not senstive ...
thnakful u and other here.....cant take suffering anymore ....either improves or i make it imporve or
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